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Reading this was like reading my mind. Except I've never dated guys before. It's hard to say. Do you still like guys? Would you wanna date a guy? If yes, you are bi or bi-curious. Do you like girls where you wanna kiss and do stuff with another girl? These kind of questions I've asked myself. I'm now 17, came out to my friends as bi but more into girls. I was struggling with it since i was 14. I know now (I came out to my friends a few months ago) that I'm lesbian. Because I can't see myself being in a relationship with a guy and thinking of kissing one grosses me out. Lol But i'd love to kiss a girl and have a gf. So what I'm saying is, with time you'll know who your true self is. :) Don't rush it and put a label on it.

When entering high school I didn't really know anyone but the people I went to middle school with, I didn't really like any of them. The first week of school I met a girl named Alexous, she was unlike anyone I had ever met before. I was very shy and didn't approach her, we rode the bus together and had a class and lunch together. She introduced herself to me, and we just seemed to click. She gave me her phone number and it took me hours to work up the nerve to call her, we talked for three hours that night. Ever since that night we became best friends. We spent a lot of time together, I felt different when I was with her. I became very open with her, and through her met many of my friends today. I fell completely in love with her.. During our sophomore year I started to realize that I was in love with her, over Thanksgiving break I went with her to visit her family in NC. We were about to go to bed and I kissed her cheek, and she kissed mine. It was a back and forth thing and eventually we kissed, it was confusing, but I never felt happier. Things progressed and we have been together and in love for almost three years now. Shes the love of my life :)

That's my story. Don't try and force yourself out, you'll find someone amazing. By the things you've told me I think you are gay. I felt the same way you did, everything will be okay, give it time. Good luck :)

You have no clue how many girls are Bi-Sexual these days. Where I'm from, it's actually looked at as normal. Girl + Girl relationships are just easier, so I've been told. I'm a guy, and I'm personally not gay, but I have no problem with Girl + Girl :) Guy + Guy is just wrong though. I'm probably saying that because I'm a guy. But if you like girls..... go for it.... You don't need a relationship you can just mess around with them..... it's probably not as fun as it would be messing around with a guy but whatever floats your boat :)

You need to date real men

try experimenting with chicks. but what do i know. i was born lesbian. lol