How do I treat this girl at my school?
So i'm in middle school and I was wondering if you could help me say the right thing to my friend who is a girl. She sits by me at lunch every day and we're really good friends. The only thing is that her breast sag down all the way to her waist and even a bra doesn't even hoist those up. She gets a lot of unwanted attention from all the boys at my school. I'm her only guy friend who isn't interested in her chest. How can I support her and make her feel better without saying the wrong thing?
Update:She only has one friend who's a girl. which is her sister. all her other friends think she is a freak.
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Just keep doing what you are doing, Be her friend for who she is and not how big her breasts are and treat her respectfully.
Are you saying that they make fun of her boobs
because they are saggy like, in a gross way? Or that
she just has really big boobs? I don't think you should
say anything negative about her, just tell her not to
pay attention to what the boys/girls say and not to let
it get her down in any way. Just keeping being her friend.
If I was you i wouldn't say anything unless she asks and even if she does you don't necessarily have to come straight out and say something just try not to hurt her feelings and be subtle rather than blurting it out. Does she not have any girl friends that could maybe be better to talk to her about it
I wouldnt say anything about her boobs...if someone says something just tell them to bug off. Just be there for her if shes feelin bad about herself. If your just a friend i really wouldnt say anything specifically about it, specially in middle school.
Pretend like you heard somebody say something rude about her chest, and say that because your her good friend, you don't want people to say stuff like that about her. Then see her reaction, and she'll figure out how to solve the problem. Don't insult her though, just show care and respect.
Lol tell her to get a push up bra xD
Why would you say anything
Tell her that she needs a tighter over the shoulder bolder holder. Oh and you must be gay if you don't like her hudge Boobies!