Boy trouble?
I went to turnabout with this guy who is a freshman and I am a sophmore. We talked everyday at swimming, but after I asked him, we hardly ever talked. The dance was awesome and he put his hands on my private when grinding and he took my hands under his. He also put his hands on my butt when slow dancing. I really thought we had a connection. He got me punch when I was thirsty and he rubbed his cheek against mine when dancing. Now that the dance is over. I went to one of his waterpolo games and asked him to a party and to a school event. He hasn't responded to any of them. What does this mean? I thought he liked me it really seemed. I am confused and I really like this guy what should I do?
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ask him whats up.
If you give yourself so freely on first opportunity why would he come back.. He knows what you are all about and he chooses not to go there.
Your behaviour has led him to believe he can get what he wants from you when he wants it.
You don't make a "connection" with someone on the first date, or by dirty dancing or being felt up... come on what were you thinking.
If you are that easy, he knows any guy could get with you.
You blew it...
Maybe you should keep your hands in your pockets and keep your panties on in future until you establish something with someone.
You have cheapened yourself.
You might try asking him again about the party and the school event again, as in "have you decided yet", but it sounds like he's not interested. It's not a sign of affection when a boy gets physical as much as a sign of lust. Consider this a learning experience and move on.
more than likely he is feeling a little uncomfortable with your relationship. you talked at the pool and enjoyed each others company then you let him feel you up on the dance floor. He probably likes you but isn't looking for a girlfriend and doesn't want you to think more of your relationship than there is. just talk to him at the pool and ask him if you have offended him or something.
don't expect guys to reply straight away... they take their time about things, so maybe he will reply soon. give it time. if he still doesnt reply it's probably because he isn't interested and at the dance he was just looking for a good time with someone. hope it works out for ya
well hun it seems to me that he likes you but he's giving off mixed signals like one minute he likes you the next minute he doesn't so do the same thing he might think your up to something but trust me it works and i'v been in the same situation that your in i mean bout the boy but not the dance i wish you are lucky tho to have him snag him an keep um locked to your side if needed.....lol good luck
guys like a challenge. If you are allowing him to touch you in that way without really knowing him, a guy sees it as you would let anyone do that. Remember, women use sex for love men use love for sex. He doesn't see it as a connection. He saw it as a cheap thrill.
He is attracted to you and wanted to have sex with you but now his conscience is working on him so leave the guy alone and find somebody who'll like you for you!
well he gave you the signs of wanting some an got none so maybe you need to move along
He probable liked you but, thought were to easy so he probable doesn't like you anymore. maybe next time you keep it hands free.
Probably because he wanted to just touch your private areas....