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There really is no way to ask a person out to eat "nonchalantly," because you are going out of your way to ask a random question. What you can do though is first ask what kind of food she likes. If this is too direct for you, open up with how bad the cafeteria food is or something (unless your school has GOOD food, which I tend to doubt!)

So: Cafeteria food, then ask what food she DOES like, and then ask her out to eat.

Above all, be yourself and be kind. You can never go wrong with that. If this whole opening up to ask doesn't work, don't worry or be nervous. It's a very simple question, and should get a very simple answer.

Good luck! Hope I helped. :)

So I wish i had figured this out in high school. here are the steps in getting a date. 1. Find a person who you find interesting as a person. 9don't worry about silly things and don't over think) I suggest you even put looks a bit on the back burner, find someone you at least find a bit attractive but as you date them you find them better looking (not kidding). 2. don't worry too much about it meaning don't invest yourself too much emotionally without asking them out because you are giving them your heart and they have no reason to care about stomping on it and may not realize they are doing it. It sucks when that happens. 3. Ask her out confidently. If she doesn't know if you asked her out you did it wrong. This is a thing guys usually still need to take a lead on a girls tend to like it. 4. remember you are asking her out once not proposing so if she says no don't freak out don't go all weird on her and it will be ok. If she goes wierd on you she isn't mature enough to date yet and find some one else. This will keep you happy safe and get you on a date with a quality girl, and not friend zoned.

man grow a pair ask her straight up. order pizza and do ur thing