Alright, i don't even know where to start. Im a freshman, the girl that i like is in 8th grade. (very mature for her age though.) We started hanging out about 4-5 months ago. I had developed a liking for her, not sure if the feelings were mutual. She informed me that she may have had some feelings for someone else at the time. I was sad, so i let it rest. Before i knew it, she wanted to kiss me at a local festival under the fireworks where i would soon ask her to be my girlfriend. Things crumbled when i talked to another girl about my liking for her. She was mad at me.... and on the day of the festival, the man she earlier informed me about asked her out, and they began to date. 3 months they dated. me and her talked so much while they were dating. and while they were she called me and said, "that I was the 50% perfect guy for her. Her boyfriend being the other 50%" we talked more over and over. hung out. THEN, i said that she reminded me of a song... a complimentary song towards her beauty. then she must of realized she had feelings for me. and said "i can no longer talk to you Trevor" and left me hanging. she said that cuz she didnt want me to interfere with her and her BF relationship. Then we slowly started talking again, hanging out. Three months her and her BF haver been dating. Then at a DANCE, her bf broke up wit her to makeout with another girl.... I though that was my chance... but she made the mistake of GOING BACK OUT WITH HIM. She broke up with him after 13 days. She turned to me. (as a back-up plan which i didnt like) I like her alot. i still do! I went to hang out with her and her bestfriend. We watched a movie and she cuddled next to me. rest her legs on mine and her head on my shoulder.... Man i though my life was complete right then and there. Then days later we went to a Real movie. Dream House. She again cuddled next to me her legs on mine, her head on my shoulder, and then she held my hand... I was so happy. we would whisper and our faces would be 2 inches away from eachother... i might have been too much a puss to kiss her. i didnt know if she wanted to though! i asked her over the phone if i was suppose to. (dumb move on my part) she said that she still has some feelings for her eX and it would make things akward between her and her eX. i dont know what to do anymore.... mee and her eX are best friends... today at soccer, he said that she like ANOTHER PERSON. nick to be clear. nick is alot better looking than me. hes the talk of the school. i really like her and want to be with her more than ever. i ask my 17 year old bro who is good with the ladies what to do and he said "leave it rest for a few days. dont text her for like 5 days (which i did almost ever day) if she texts you, reply with simple answers, make her want you...." it pains me so much not to talk to her. Yesterday we went to the movies, held hand, cuddled a bit.... i dont understand. WHAT DO I DO TO MAKE HER MINE? IS IT TOO LATE? PLEASE SOMEONE HELP!
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It sounds like your brother has the right idea, try it his way.It also sounds like your in the friend zone with the girl you like.You have to get out of it by making a move(after you try ur brothers way).i mean its always better to ask for forgivness than for permission. so you have to make a move.
She Sounds a Lit Bit Young For You. The Thing is if she said she likes you 50 percent why sell yourself short. You sound like a good person and you deserve better than that. Why not wait for 100 percent. What makes you think you should settle? I am an older person and I have gone through this and if I could go back in time I would tell myself to show myself more confidence. Life is to short dear I want you to wait for someone who Loves you full Hearted it will happen if you have enough courage. Also, if you don't settle she might realize you are 100 percent and let me say that looks are over rated. The person I Loved when I was Younger was Very Cute to Me, but he didn't Think he was the Loving Way We were Together Made Him Attractive to Me and when you Love Each Other that is the Most Important Thing. I hope this Helps.
i would do exactly what your brother said to do! thats the advice i give you! i know it hurts you, but thats what you need to do. and if that dosent work, i got out of this as you sre just a backup plan for her..im sorrie but thats what i got out of it. if you have any questions, advice, or want any help email me. [email protected]
i hope everything turns out ok! (:
for god's sake just tell her you like her before it's too late!!!!