I'm going to the mall with about 3 people. One of which is my crush. We might be going to the movies as well. How do I play it cool without embarrassing? Thanks:)
Dude.. Treat her like one of ur dude friends. Don't be desperate andwant her to much.. That's too easy for her.. It's the thrill of the hunt dude.. Think about it. If u went hunting and every time u stepped foot in the wood there was a trophy 12 pointer just standing there broad side waiting for u to kill it would it be fun? If u went fishing and the 10 lb bass were all begging to be the lucky one that bites ur lure would it be fun? It's the thrill of the hunt... Make her want u. Don't be desperate but be available.. Dont buy her everything she wants ... If she wants popcorn, buy it for her.. But jokingly pull it Way before she takes some and say "whats in it for me?" she will giggle and say " really? What is it that u want mr?" and all u reply is "a simple kiss from a beautiful woman!" she will either kiss u or say hey go kiss her.. In which u laugh.. Even if it isn't funny.. But for the love of god!!! Don't ask for anything more.. Take ur time. Good things come to those who wait.. Take the time to learn her. Listen to her. Listen to her desires. Listen to her wants. They will come in more than just words homie.. She will show u. She will talk... U NEED to listen. Give her time. Impress her with ur kindness, security and devotion.. And u will see when it comes to her... She really is all that matters . Let her know that. Convince her of that. If u want her to love u the way u love her. Make love to her mind. Make her see how important she is. Pay attention to the key elements of a long term relationship and the effort it will take. Notice her motherly instinct rather than how short her skirt is. Notice the goodness in her heart rather then the number on her bra. Learn her... Make love to her mind.. The physical part is easy.. Really truly love her.. She will have no choice to but to see u care and mean that much to her. U will be rewarded. Patience is a virtue... If u only want to get in her pants.. Then good luck.. Do it. She may like u for it but she will never truely love u for it.. So figure out what she means to u. This decision will change ur whole relationship... For the better or for bad.. Trust me dude you may think it is macho to hump and dump.. And if thats all u and her want thsts fine just be honest with your intentions wit her. You are young yet let her love as u should too. But dump is forever.. And so is true love.. Good luck!!
Well, without making a scene, sit next to her at the movies. Maybe "accidentally" touch her arm. Send her some signals! Without being too obvious, of course. Be careful, it may be embarrassing if you do something wrong - your friends are there, remember!!
ok ask her out next friday reason she in all probability be busy all week so attempt the weekend. do no longer ask her out the 1st hazard you get reason that should make you look like your obsessed. additionally discover out while she has no longer something to do on the weekends so which you adult adult males could have a date. If she keeps on turning down on your proposals for a date then she's way too busy for a dating. in line with hazard she in simple terms desires to be acquaintances reason she has no time for having a bf?
Other people are telling you to be yourself. Don't. Yourself won't work until you have achieved self-actualization. The best thing to do is to respond to what people say but do not invoke conversation. When your crush asks you questions, respond more clearly and directly. When her/your friends ask you questions, reply but keep it short. That way, she realizes you are interested.
"Hello." is fine. "How are you?" is not.
Alternatively, (Metaphorically, for the censors) bring a handgun, a sub-machine gun, a sniper rifle and a Collector-technology handheld particle beam. It works for Shepard and his crew. It will work for you.
Be yourself, and if you do embarrass yourself, don't make a big deal out of it. That will give her big clues that you like her (Which might be a good thing depending on if she already likes you or not).
first off relax when your with her. its easy to tell when a guy is on edge. second DO NOT HIT ON OTHER GIRLS WHILE UR THERE thats a big no lol. just be yourself, start group conversations so u have a way to talk to her without feeling so pressured, then when you become a little more comfortable, talk to her on ur own and ask her things about herself. keep the conversation going, and dont talk about anything that would make it awkward!
Be yourself. Act friendly, but not to clingy, you don't wanna come off as an annoying creep. Try to get a seat next to her at the movies, but be sutle about it. Talk to her. Ask questions but don't be nosy. Dont make it all about her either. But try not to come off as self absorbed :)
I say just treat her like a friend and be urself. Sit next to her in the theater, but if someone is ahead of u and sits next to her..dont make a big deal about it...just accept it.
do not take a shower a week beforehand, and don't use the bathroom 24 hours before you go (use your pants). also, be sure and insult her. always works <3
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Dude.. Treat her like one of ur dude friends. Don't be desperate andwant her to much.. That's too easy for her.. It's the thrill of the hunt dude.. Think about it. If u went hunting and every time u stepped foot in the wood there was a trophy 12 pointer just standing there broad side waiting for u to kill it would it be fun? If u went fishing and the 10 lb bass were all begging to be the lucky one that bites ur lure would it be fun? It's the thrill of the hunt... Make her want u. Don't be desperate but be available.. Dont buy her everything she wants ... If she wants popcorn, buy it for her.. But jokingly pull it Way before she takes some and say "whats in it for me?" she will giggle and say " really? What is it that u want mr?" and all u reply is "a simple kiss from a beautiful woman!" she will either kiss u or say hey go kiss her.. In which u laugh.. Even if it isn't funny.. But for the love of god!!! Don't ask for anything more.. Take ur time. Good things come to those who wait.. Take the time to learn her. Listen to her. Listen to her desires. Listen to her wants. They will come in more than just words homie.. She will show u. She will talk... U NEED to listen. Give her time. Impress her with ur kindness, security and devotion.. And u will see when it comes to her... She really is all that matters . Let her know that. Convince her of that. If u want her to love u the way u love her. Make love to her mind. Make her see how important she is. Pay attention to the key elements of a long term relationship and the effort it will take. Notice her motherly instinct rather than how short her skirt is. Notice the goodness in her heart rather then the number on her bra. Learn her... Make love to her mind.. The physical part is easy.. Really truly love her.. She will have no choice to but to see u care and mean that much to her. U will be rewarded. Patience is a virtue... If u only want to get in her pants.. Then good luck.. Do it. She may like u for it but she will never truely love u for it.. So figure out what she means to u. This decision will change ur whole relationship... For the better or for bad.. Trust me dude you may think it is macho to hump and dump.. And if thats all u and her want thsts fine just be honest with your intentions wit her. You are young yet let her love as u should too. But dump is forever.. And so is true love.. Good luck!!
Well, without making a scene, sit next to her at the movies. Maybe "accidentally" touch her arm. Send her some signals! Without being too obvious, of course. Be careful, it may be embarrassing if you do something wrong - your friends are there, remember!!
ok ask her out next friday reason she in all probability be busy all week so attempt the weekend. do no longer ask her out the 1st hazard you get reason that should make you look like your obsessed. additionally discover out while she has no longer something to do on the weekends so which you adult adult males could have a date. If she keeps on turning down on your proposals for a date then she's way too busy for a dating. in line with hazard she in simple terms desires to be acquaintances reason she has no time for having a bf?
Other people are telling you to be yourself. Don't. Yourself won't work until you have achieved self-actualization. The best thing to do is to respond to what people say but do not invoke conversation. When your crush asks you questions, respond more clearly and directly. When her/your friends ask you questions, reply but keep it short. That way, she realizes you are interested.
"Hello." is fine. "How are you?" is not.
Alternatively, (Metaphorically, for the censors) bring a handgun, a sub-machine gun, a sniper rifle and a Collector-technology handheld particle beam. It works for Shepard and his crew. It will work for you.
Be yourself, and if you do embarrass yourself, don't make a big deal out of it. That will give her big clues that you like her (Which might be a good thing depending on if she already likes you or not).
first off relax when your with her. its easy to tell when a guy is on edge. second DO NOT HIT ON OTHER GIRLS WHILE UR THERE thats a big no lol. just be yourself, start group conversations so u have a way to talk to her without feeling so pressured, then when you become a little more comfortable, talk to her on ur own and ask her things about herself. keep the conversation going, and dont talk about anything that would make it awkward!
Just play it cool like you guys are really good friends, but also treat her like she is a lot more special then a best friend.
Be yourself. Act friendly, but not to clingy, you don't wanna come off as an annoying creep. Try to get a seat next to her at the movies, but be sutle about it. Talk to her. Ask questions but don't be nosy. Dont make it all about her either. But try not to come off as self absorbed :)
Good luck
I say just treat her like a friend and be urself. Sit next to her in the theater, but if someone is ahead of u and sits next to her..dont make a big deal about it...just accept it.
do not take a shower a week beforehand, and don't use the bathroom 24 hours before you go (use your pants). also, be sure and insult her. always works <3