Okay, so there's this really cute 15 year old boy in my class, let's just call him Ray lol. So I never had any feelings for Ray in the past until recently, maybe about a few months ago. I've known him since the 4th grade. He's been off and on with dating my cousin, and he used to flirt with my other cousin a lot to. He's a really sweet guy and he's really sensitive, but he's one to fall for anybody. He's easy. He's always hanging out with the popular girls and they're always flirting with him, it's just so annoying. But there's always been something about him that I just couldn't stay away from. He's like a girl lol. He understands and it's easy to talk to him. That's what I really like about him.

But anywhores, we've been texting for a few months now. I asked for his number from my cousin and she had no problem giving it to me. In school, he does show some signs that he likes me, but he's not one to make it obvious. When it comes to me though, I have no problem with telling a guy I like him, whether it's in text or in person. The thing is, I have no intention of getting with the guy though. I don't like dating, especially at this age. I'm thirteen.

So last night we were texting, and he started getting flirty so I tried playing it off without him noticing. For example, I asked him what he was doing, and he's like "Nothing much, hbu?" (Hbu: How about you? For you old people, lol) And so then I'm like "Nothing much, just sitting on the sofa watching TV lonely" And that's when he said, "You don't have to be lonely, you can come over and cuddle with me;)lol"

Okay, that's sort of like the G-rated version of what he's been saying to me. Lmfao. But to get to my point, soon enough he asked, "I'm not asking you out but would you ever go out with me?" And I told him I just couldn't and how he knew that already. He asked why and I told him I couldn't because two of my cousins were already in love with him, not to mention another one of my friends. I'm paraphrasing a little but he's like, "Oh wow, that's only three. What's the big deal?" I told him it was a big deal because they all liked him and it just wouldn't be right. So he continued on to say, "What if they didn't know?" And I just told him, "I still wouldn't, it's not right." Then he was like, "What if they never liked me?" And I was like, "I still wouldn't, it's a pretty ****** up thing to do." So then he's like "Damn ok" And I'm like "Yea, why were you asking anyways?"

So then he's like (Again, I'm still paraphrasing), "Just wondering but you're a good person you don't let a guy (me) stand between you and your friends/family.

Um okay then. Was he flirting and actually trying to get with me or is he just a stupid little boy trying to lead me on? Did I do the right thing by telling him off?