Ugh guy trouble......?
K so I really like this guy a lottt. We flirt like every time were with each other and I like pretty much know for a fact he likes me too. BUT..Sadly when were with people he like flirts with other girls. Were not dating or anything...But I'm pretty sure he knows I like him. Then he'd turn around and tell me I hate him and asks me why I'm ignoring him or something when he's flirting with other people. I think he's like doing it on purpose maybe..? One time I did something on accident and it wasn't even flirting and he was like "WOW FLIRT WITH OTHER PPL MUCH?" Or something..And I really like him so I don't like wanna stop talking to him. Any suggestions? ;/
Answers & Comments
he's trying to make you jealous & test the waters by flirting with other girls. Wants to see if you really do like him. He's also insecure, but you are probably both quite young, so that's pretty normal. I'm old fashioned. I think in terms of "is this guy worth spending forever with?" If not, forget it.
BE A STRONG WOMAN. say "hey its not like were going out or anything. im allowed to talk to other people. your not god......" STAND UP FOR YOURSLEF! if your not even going out and hes being possesive that a BIG RED FLAG. i dont know how old u guys are but any guy whos acting like that can not be a potential boyfriend. sorry about the tough love but i know what im tlking about. MOVE ON.
Some people are just generally flirtatious. I know happily married men who still flirt with other woman. Don't worry about it too much.
Ask him out, if he says yes, great, if he says no, move on. Life is short. Seize the day.
he's doing it to make you jealous to see how it bothers u. u should tell him how u feel so you know rather or not he likes you. so you dont waste your time good luck :)