Guy trouble!!!! help!!!!?
Hi. So here's the thing. I like this guy named Abram last year for like 4 mounths but he had no idea cause he's oblivious like that. So last May, we were at a party and he kissed a girl who he hardly knew then grinded with her. i made me mad cause he's also my best guy friend and i thought he was better than that. So... we still are friends, but I'm getting the impression he likes me and I think I still like him too.
Update:what should i do???
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One, don't grind on the dance floor. It's tacky. :-) I mean, do you want the entire world to think you have sex doggy style?
Two, if you like him, then go for it. Invite him over for lunch or dinner, ask him if he wants to go to a movie or hang out at the mall, ask for help on homework -- you know the drill. Get to work!
alright so screw what everybody else said cuz there is a question and guys are really shy sometimes. that thing with him grinding a girl at a party that was in may its like september now. a lot can happen in like 4 months. if you think he likes you try to give him hints that you like him too. flirt with him and if he doesnt get the hint than give him bigger hints until he gets the point or you could just ask him out. he may be too scared to ask you out. believe it or not a lot of guys are like that and they just dont wanna be rejected. be brave and confident. and go for what you really want. dont wait around for it because then it may never come.
Ok I'm glad you now have a question.
1. Grinding is just a dance move. He was just being a boy. Not saying all of them but most boys are very impulsive and tend to not think things through. If you like him you should just look over it.
2. If you like him you should go for it! You could first ask him if he wants to hang out one day perhaps doing something that you like to do together. I'm my town there isn't much to do so we hang out at the mall. You could try something like that or maybe something like going rock climbing together. That is always fun so long as you're not afraid of heights.
3. After that you can ask him out, perhaps lunch or a movie.
I hope everything goes well for you! Best of luck!
-AuzzieClimber-
If he likes you why would he do what he did? he's am immature little boty that will do whatever feels good to him regardless as to who it might hurt. he'd probably dance grind with a female snake if it would hold still long enough.
Forget him he isn't worth it.
sweetie, if he likes you he'll let you know.
If you think hes too shy, give him some time, cause it wont take long to realize that its gotta be him to ask.( not to say that you cant just ask him, but most guys will make an effort if they like you.)
Tell him that you have feelings for him maybe he is just shy about telling you..
Good to know? There's no question.