Ok so theres this guy. I REALLY like him. A lot. I think he likes me back. We have 2 classes together and whenever i look his way, i can see from the corner of my eye that he's looking at me. One of his friends told him to ask me out (I didnt tell the friend to do this) and he said "i know" But sometimes i doubt that he likes me 'cause he never tries to start a conversation. Well the other day he asked for my number and texted me, and yesterday he attempted at talking to me. Also on instagram he followed me and commented on one of my pictures. This may sound stalkerish but i know he went to see if i commented again because when i replied i didnt say "@blahblahblah" but somehow he commented back? Sorry if this doesnt make sense. I just wanna know how i can get him to be less shy and talk to me. Or maybe text me :( help
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Yeah its clear he likes you. Do him a favor and take the stress off him and go up to him during class and say Hi. Ask him how hes doing. He likes you, so you dont have to be afraid of rejection. He'll know youre approachable and want to talk to you more afterwards
Hmm.. Looks like you are dealing with the shy type. Luckily my husband is like that so i know what you should do.
Youre going to have to take initiative and go after him. Cause hes too shy. Start off by texting him. A simple "hey" . Just to get a conversation going. Just dont do it way too much where u start to bother him. Then when u have him more interested in u, thats when u stop texting him as much and play hard to get. Talk to other guys (but keep it PG like innocent flirting. Not too much.that youll hurt his feelings.) to give him pressure to feel like "damn, if i dont make a move on this.girl, i can lose her to another guy"
If THAT doesnt help, maybe hes not as interested as u thought he was.
Or he is, but wants.to make sure u feel the same why about him. Maybe yours not giving him enough "signs"
Idk... Im not around u guys 24/7 so only you would know. Good luck girly