Okay so at school, there is this guy.. lets call him bob for example. The first time he asked me out was on oovoo.... i said no. The other two times were by my locker and still i said no. Somehow i wish i didnt say no cause i hate making people sad/hurt by me. i know i cant make everyone happy but i can try to stop doing the hurt full stuff... that wont really change me. anyways... he always opens the doors for me and asks for hugs and stuff like that... but he keeps on flirting with other girls.
He called my best frien----- not my friend anymore.... hot and tries to touch her... i dont know about now but...
he also asks others out
but he looks at me, tries to get me to laugh, tries to get closer, opens doors for me (lets go on them for others), calls me gourgous ( i think thats how u spell it)
So rele, my question is: Should i trust him and say yes?
oh and ps others call him gay and all that..... but hes just sweet... and DEF not gay
(others hate him)
Help! and sorry that might be a bit messy... i dont have enough time to check it over...
Update:im actually starting to think i like him..... around...... but the only thing is he is a giant flirt
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I've been in this situation. A guy likes you, you have no feelings for him, but you don't want to hurt him. Obviously you can't marry this guy, so at some point you will be breaking up with him. It would be much better just to keep on saying no instead of stringing him along and then hurting him more later.