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Okay help me out. You have only been thinking about her for 10 years??? Have you all spent any time together? Have she met your family? Has she visited your home town? Have you been back and forth to visit her? Are you two in a serious relationship? Oh, does she feel the same way? Does she want you to move to Vegas? If you can answer "yes" to these questions, then heck go get your girl!!!!

Wow! I got mixed emotions when I read your question. Give the long distance relationship a shot before you go off and be with her. What was the reason that it didn't work out the first time? Could be just a whirlwind romance that is worth visiting again, but really look into your feelings for this girl. Are they real or are you both just caught up in the moment? You have accomplished all of these great things in your life without this girl. Do you think she would do the same for you?

Might want to check things out first. What if you leave everything & find out she's married & has 3 kids?

Later after reading edit: If you're in touch with her now & she feels the same way, go for it! True love is pretty rare & if you've found it, you should grab it. Maybe start a little slower & look for jobs in the area, let her son get to know you a little, etc. That way, it won't be such a drastic move when you make it.

Your situation is quite understandable

I did the same thing.

I left everyone behind, including my own family because I wanted to be with S, but unfortunately I decided this at the WRONG time. By the time I realized that I wanted to be with her and create a family and have her as my better half, it was TOO late.

: / She decided to move away from me, now she is no longer with me unfortunately. I now recognize all the mistakes that I committed in the past. all I can do is recognize my mistakes in the past...and wait.

So, if you think that this girl that you speak of is worth it, then do it, I would, I DID. That might be your only chance at being truly happy. You should not waste it, I did and I regret it now.

I don't think that you would want to feel as I do now...totally empty...

Only you and her can answer that question. Don't rely on others to tell you. I will say this. If you are a Christian and believe in God and trust Him, then let Him settle the issue to it by praying and asking Him to guide your footsteps down the path that He has for you. You can't go wrong with listening to His answer and if you truly follow Him, He will let you know. Don't be afraid to put a fleece before the Lord as it was done in the scriptures. Some people think that is not something that you should do, but my wife and I have done it numerous times when we are seeking His will for us in our lives.

All for now and have both a blessed day and a blessed week.

does she feel the same, how well do you really know her. if you know her pretty well, and you've been thinking about her for that long, maybe you should go for it. However, you may just be in the love with the idea of her, If you've only been with her a few times, of course it's going to be hot a full of passion, but everyday life with somebody is always a different story. Maybe you should end the story now, while it's still sweet

There are somewhat some, some on reflection (which potential, i became too youthful on the time, and easily knew approximately it finding lower back). From Celtic Frost's "Into The Crypts Of Rays" to "Cherry Orchards". From Metallica's "Hit The lighting fixtures" to "Hero Of The Day". From Morbid Angel's "Altars Of insanity" to their new album. A opposite occasion of WTF for some human beings, is the perception that Pantera and Alice In Chains have been as quickly as right this moment-up glam bands, lipstick and all.

Then go for it! Looks like it will drive you batty if you don't. Did she ask you to move there to be with her? If so, maybe it isn't so crazy. Life is short and full of surprises. May be your biggest mistake, but could be the best thing you've ever done. You won't know unless you do it.

Sometimes you just have to go with your heart, but the fact that you are questioning the change worries me. Maybe you need to see her in Vegas a few more times before moving forward?

I don't know how old you are, but there comes a time in our lives when family and friends aren't enough or they can't always be there because they have their own lives. Go for the girl. Have no regrets. Good luck!