For a few months I have been talking to a boy named Taylor.

I confessed I had like him after about 2 months of talking and he said he felt the same.

Before we confessed we'd hangout around 3 times a week and we would have so much fun.

We'd talk every single day, all day or as much as we could.

Then one day, he had a bad day. And I admit I didn't help.

Unknowingly i brought up his ex girlfriend who he was dating for about 3 years he said.

I tried to lighten up the conversation asap and he was fine for about 2 minutes then abruptly said he was going to bed.

We didn't talk a few days after till i asked whats going on

he said he's just been having a rough week and needed space

and i understood.

i gave him space

then about 2 days of space he texts me and we go pretty close to the way we used to be.

but then the next day i text him i get no reply.

i wait a few days and say something to the effect of "i'm a big girl, if you don't want to talk anymore i can handle it" and he says no, he wants me to stay he's just been having a rough time.

and i understand completely, at least i think i do?

but i cant just wait around for him forever, if he told me to wait for him, things will get better i'd do it in an instant.

but this bipolar relationship is making me dizzy.

i want to confront him and talk about it,

but i dont know if i should and if i did, i wouldn't know what to say.

please help.