well my best friend got raped by her dad when she was 10 and doesn't trust any guys but me but i love her but she is just my freind but i want to date her so will she yes or never trust me again
Before, I used to volunteer in an institution where young girls are sexually abused. For as young as 2 years old, they are abused by the one who they are trusted. Most of them are teenagers. Every time i hear their stories all im thinking is what will be my punishment if i kill those rapist. But I'm afraid of GOD and HE have a better plan for them (the victim and the rapist)
Those kids are having a hard time to go on with their lives.
Don't ask your friend for a date now (what is her age now?) She needs counselling. And when she get over with her past...I'm sure she'll be the one who will ask you if you want a date with her.
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you seems to be a nice guy.. talk to her slowly ask her weather she is ready for a relationship or not? if she refuse then you should consider of stay with her as a friend.. you're the one she can trust so don't spoil that trust..
how would you know she was raped unless she told you ,so she already trusts you.just take your time ,tell her straight up how you feel about her and just take your time be patient and give her some space and continue to be her friend
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Before, I used to volunteer in an institution where young girls are sexually abused. For as young as 2 years old, they are abused by the one who they are trusted. Most of them are teenagers. Every time i hear their stories all im thinking is what will be my punishment if i kill those rapist. But I'm afraid of GOD and HE have a better plan for them (the victim and the rapist)
Those kids are having a hard time to go on with their lives.
Don't ask your friend for a date now (what is her age now?) She needs counselling. And when she get over with her past...I'm sure she'll be the one who will ask you if you want a date with her.
in fact that men in recent times rape women because of the fact they choose to lose their virginity at a youthful age because of the fact of ways low they appeared down on with the aid of society for nonetheless having their v enjoying cards. women early have no thought approximately enjoying themselves and a few believe in saving themselves. Others are in basic terms downright large picky approximately who they sleep with. So this is not men's or women's fault actually. this is societies fault.
you seems to be a nice guy.. talk to her slowly ask her weather she is ready for a relationship or not? if she refuse then you should consider of stay with her as a friend.. you're the one she can trust so don't spoil that trust..
Aot of unanswered questions. Mainly is she ready for a relationship. You two need to sit down and talk.
Good Luck.
how would you know she was raped unless she told you ,so she already trusts you.just take your time ,tell her straight up how you feel about her and just take your time be patient and give her some space and continue to be her friend
Date her only if you truly think you love her.
When you do date, make sure to take things slow.
if you don't like her more than a friend, but then date her, you'll hurt her. Only date her if you are serious.
leave it all up to faith, my good man,