ok well it started with me walkign into a room and meeting this really sweet girl then we chat and we made love then i feel soo gitty and happy. and whenever i see her around this gigantic mansion i say hey its you and somehow i brake her heart because all her friends say that i made her sad but i really do love her but icant say anything because i couldnt tell anyone about what i did .
this is my dream !
im Confused with my sexuality , i have no idea what is good for me
but secretly i wanna have fun with a girl it seems so much more 'romantic' than with a guy , but guys i unno are good too
Im Not bisexual but i guess you can say im just curious
HELP , Comment , or any ideas on the dream itself !
p.s what percentage of highschoolers are lesbian ?
and how can you tell , i really wanna meet and maybe get to 'know; one .
Update:This was More Than a dream you know , it was like an Eyeopener
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everyone has a dream at one point in there life where something happens with the same sex. it's perfectly normal, just like it's normal to question yourself. everyone is curious at one point or another, you might be Bi-curious. although remember you never have to label yourself if you don't want to. just be yourself and take things as they come. theres no rush to have to know right away, you have time to figure these things out.
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completely common, don't worry, you'll need a lot more than a dream to turn you, in fact if you were to be gay or bi-sexual you would feel a compulsion to be close and sexually aroused by that sex, not just a dream. Sex change or orientation dreams are common. People will not talk about it but they are. your brain is experimenting in the safety of it's own subconscious, primarily it is an affirmation of your current desires, by taking those away it parodies your current situation, so you may look at things afresh or understand a different perspective. Sometimes such a dream is actually a rollercoaster effect, choices made earlier in the dream bring about hypotheticals your brain is calculating. One time I was on a beach and saw a gorgeous girl I tried to ask out, she said no but some guy behind her thought I was talking to him and I had him following me around the party. Point is your brain is throwing scenarios and issues at you but dreams cannot tell you if you are gay or not.
What's wrong with being bi? Maybe you are. Probably are. You have to take your own steps to finding out though. You want to experiment, well then lunge. Flirt and try things with a girl.
each person has atleast has one homosexual dream in their life