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Only have sex if you're comfortable with your boyfriend. If you are comfortable, but you're afraid it will hurt when you two have sex, tell him NOT to go rough or hard until YOU are ready to. Personally, if he doesn't accept that request, it isn't worth having sex with him.

It is very likely your hymen will bust. If you feel the pain at all, it doesn't normally last very long. HOWEVER, having rough sex the first time will make you sore for DAYS. I mean days.

From your grammar, I'd say you're like, 14. Wait a while. It's worth it to wait, no matter how long you've already been dating this boy.

Also, remember to use protection. And remember that if you get put on birth control, it does NOT come into affect for about 3 months, so ALWAYS use a condom. Birth control doesn't always work as well. The condom also could break. But if you're thinking about sex you must know all of this right?

Just remember to stay safe and only do what you feel is comfortable. If he tries to push it onto you, leave his house and don't see him for a while.

I hope you don't mind me saying but you have writing skills that need some serious fixing. Maybe I can help you----- (the quotation marks means I corrected your errors)

it's "losing" my "virginity" (spelling)

Right on "Thursday" "," my boyfriend and "I" "are" "going" to "have intercourse" and he knows "I'm" a virgin "," but he "has" a 9 inch "penis" and "he" wants to go hard so "what's" the chances my cherry will pop?

So how do you know he has a 9 inch penis? Did you measure it or did he tell you how long it is?

Maybe it's me but I never heard of the term "shag" before.

So he wants to go hard. And what do you want? He's not in charge of this encounter, you are. You decide how things are going to proceed, like how fast and how hard he is going to go. It's your body and you are a virgin and he is going to hurt you if you are not careful. Boyfriends don't hurt their girlfriends. Sex is suppose to be fun, exciting, fantastic, romantic, and pain-free. If it is not, then something is not right so be on guard for any situation that is going to make you feel uncomfortable and speak up right away.

Not sure but if you get ready for it, ie. Exercise, yoga, etc. You'll pop your cherry painlessly. With a 9inch dick, Chances are high.

I wouldn't do it. You can get so many various kinds of STD's by having sex. You can also fall into lots of regret by doing something like this. Wait until you're older. Maybe when you have a serious boyfriend who you might marry. Plus once you start having sex, you have to start going to the gynecologist, and that's no fun.

If your cherry is still their, he will definitely pop it, when he penetrates your vagina. Also you won't be a virgin any longer. If he is really 9 inches long, he needs to be careful not to hit your cervix very hard. If he tries to get maximum penetration your vagina will get sore.

If you have sex, your "cherry" (or hymen) will stretch and most likely break. Make sure that you use a condom or another form of birth control.

seriously by friday your cherry will be a tail light

Don't do it u will become pregnant