Kissing trouble~?
All my boyfriend and I have ever done is do a quick, 2 second kiss. I am ready to kiss for longer than that, and I feel that I'm ready. The problem is that my boyfriend says he's not ready for that for a long time (like until we're out of high school).....and I really want to do it.
I don't want to give up on this guy because he's really nice and we have SO much in common...
Help me please
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Honestly?
1) if you don't want to let him go then don't. If you have to wait for him then you have to wait for him.
2) It's really up to you, I congratulate him for trying to wait but if thats not for you leave.
3) Theres no point in convincing someone of something they don't want to do.
4) He may be nervouse so try to talk to him about without any of the pressure.
Till you are out of high school is a little extreme. It could just be that he is afraid where it will lead, and in that case you should set some boundries, that he will comfortable with. That way you can get your smootch on and he can feel comfrotable that it won't cross any of his boundries. Either way kissing is fun, and you shouldn't have to wait until you are out of high school to get more then a quick kiss.
Then talk to him about it. but if you really care about him you will wait until you BOTH feel you are ready. i don't feel like you should pressure him. I doubt you would want him pressuring you into doing something you aren't ready for. Talk it over TOGETHER. Figure out why he doesn't feel ready and respect his choice to wait. Chances are he will change his mind WAY before you are out of high school
How old are you two?
Maybe the hesitation is because he is unsure of what to do. hold your kiss a little longer every time you kiss him; maybe this will prompt him to kiss you in return a little longer and so on and so on.
Did the two of you take a vow of abstinence? If so, maybe he knows that deep kissing can and usually does lead to heavy petting and then on to sex Maybe that is what he is protecting himself and you from.
Try and respect his wishes because he will feel under pressure if you tell him that you want to carry on to the next level if he is not ready for it. Ask him but if he is still not ready to go further, respect him.
Hope that helps!
Its probably best to wait then, maybe he's scared he'll caught something lol just playin, it could be that he doesn't feel comfortable about his own kissing skills, so just relax and when he's ready it will happen!!!
depending on your age your boy friend might be afraid that a longer kiss might lead to other things that neither of you are ready for yet.
wow! you are in high school and he isn't ready for a longer kiss. i say you should move on..
You could try doing things that turn him on so he'll want to kiss you longer
Just kiss him and don’t let go until you’ve satisfied your self. If he complains then move on