I never get sexually excited when I look at a guy but I've hooked up with so many and am consider a slut for it. I'm 14 but I always look at girls in a different way that I look at guys and I get super horny when I see them.I like the attention from guys but they don't always get me horny. I would so date a girl and have sex with but I'm not sure about marriage but that's a long time from now. Whenever I touch myself I think of girls but now I want to cry because I have no one to talk to. I don't want to like girls and it's not like I can go to one of my friends because then they'll think I have a crush on them or something.
I would also totally hook up with a guy.
I'm just so confused and I want to tell someone and I don't know who and my parents are the last person I would want to talk to.
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The way I look at it, when you're a teenager, you're basically bisexual. Teens are just so horny all the time, they're attracted to anyone attractive. It probably sounds like I'm joking, but I'm not. I wouldn't be sure about your sexuality until you're older, but for now, do whatever you want. Hook up with girls if you want. You might not like it. And don't worry. Eventually you'll figure it out.
(This is more my opinion)
(But I'm also a teenage girl so I know my sh*t)
Haha i wonder how many angry adults are gonna answer this telling you to "focus on your studies" and "keep jesus in your heart"
Age 14 is a little young to get horny just seeing someone. You see where
this kind of thinking got you, don't you? You say you're considered a slut
and your life is already full of confusion. I'd think so. Concentrate on
studies and healthy activities and not sexual things at your age. You have
lots of years ahead of you for dating and sex and adult kind of things.
I'm afraid God will not be blessing your life if you continue on the path you
seem to already be on. Stop the nonsense and have fun just being a
teenager for a few more years.
You remind me of a girl in my grade, but anyways i think only time will give you an answer, the only way to find out if your lesb is to try it out. Its not bad at all. I am kinda in the same situatiion as you although i become more emotionally attached to girls and for boys i am not attracted to any in my school just famous guys i am sexually attracted to. But your just going to have to explore your options and dont give a **** what ur friends think come college they will be long gone and no one will judge you there.
I think you are bi curious.
Most girls do experiment at some point, usually in college. It is normal