okay, here it goes...
i think i'm bisexual...
i'm terrified of admitting the truth...but i really think i am...i'm only 13...the major problem with if i ended up being bisexual, is the community judging me. i live in hick-ville alabama and ofcourse down here it'd be considered wrong...i am sexually attractive to men, very. i do love men.
one day at school, i was talking to this new girl, this girl in the grade above me said she had liked the new girl(she's bi) and the new girl said she was bi too...for some reason i just felt closer to her...i wanted to like kiss her and hug her tightly...i didn't want to have sex or anything, i just wanted to kiss and hug her...now i don't have those feelings for her, but i like hugging girls, i like being around them more than guys(well i have brothers that may explain that...) i am sexually attractive to men, but my biggest fear is rejection from my friends...my family has some lesbians in my family, so they wont...but i'm just scared about my friends...i know, i know the whole if they were my real friends they wouldn't do that, but come on its bama what can you expect?
i'm also very strong in my religon, i'm methodist, that also scares me..i'm terrified to face the truth...i'm not sexually arouse to women, but have an odd need to be around them..i've heard that same-sex activity is common in teen years...i'm just so scared of the truth...
from these facts, do y'all think i'll be bisexual
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Only you can decide what your sexuality is. I am bisexual and I have known it since I was you age. I am also a follower of Christ. Some people don't understand or agree with my views bc of my sexuality, but here is what I think...
I believe that God, knowing everything that I would go through, understands where I am now, He knows and loves me just the same as he loves and knows those who judge me and try to say I'm going to Hell. You should not fear the religion you believe in simply bc someone wants to judge you who labels themselveses as a "Christian" or a "devout religious follower". As Christ readily pointed out- nothing can separate us from the love of God when we put our trust in him.
Lastly, it sounds as though you find comfort being around women and girls who are not so strict or religious as the place you live. Soon enough you will be able to go outside of Bama and see that there is a world out there with open arms.
Don't rush into trying to define what you're feeling. Sexuality is very fluid and can land anywhere in the spectrum,
Simply, I cannot give you the answer. It sounds like you just need one or more close friends (girls) in which you can easily relate to, and be yourself around. The problem with most teen years is that you never really have one true friend, just a big cycle of annoying little gossip girls that only care about boys and clothes. I believe that what you are going through is completely normal, you just need someone to connect with. Sometimes a boy can feel intimidating, or you can't really connect with them and tell them everything, but with your same gender, it seems as though you could tell the whole world your problems, and they'd understand. Do what you think feels right, and maybe you would be happier with a girl, or with a boy, or with both. Good luck.
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I don't think you're Bi. cus from your question you don't sound like you have any emotions/feelings for girls..I guess you like been around girls because you feel more accepted and safe?. don't worry you have your whole life ahead of you, but I think having strong sexual feelings for men at age 13 is what you need to worry about
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ok truthfully, all we have to look at is 13, lol, once again people we are being asked the same question. long story short, your only 13 and anything can happen, just be safe and happy, dont think about it, itll come to you
What answer are you looking for, but I say no you are not bi