i don't know if i should tell my friends because they will act diffrent around me and i'm confused with my self i have to be straight to hang out with them and if any of them found out they would make fun of me because i'm diffrent and my family doesn't even know and if they found out too they would tease me, what should i do?
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well... if they really are your friends, they will accept you whoever or whatever preference you may have... don't be afraid... just let it go..! Sometimes criticisms, redicule and rejection are but part of the whole truth... live with it! The greatest obstacle people has is the cowardness to face the truth. Hide it.... you will never be happy and might even regret in the end.... Be true!!!!
Wow... make that statement more than one sentence would be a good start.
Honestly, take it slow. Think it through at every step. Sometimes a bit of confusion in one area of life can spread out into everywhere. When that happens its best not to be rash. Give yourself some credit for coming to terms with the idea. The most important thing is that YOU are ok with it. Oddly enough its kinda trendy these days, so your friends may not have such a hard time with it as you think.
Studies have actually been done which show that the majority of Bisexual feelings are one of two things; either the individual is on their was to becoming completely homosexual, or they are experiencing some mild confusion and will drift back towards heterosexuality. This is the primary reason you should hang back for a bit. Its best not to brand yourself with anything until you know for sure where you stand.
Don't tell them and just let your self decide.
PS I just asked a Q. Saying that my friend is a les and what should i do they said if they trust you enogh to tell the secrect be nice and grow up. Your friends may not understand like me. ~good luck~
Honestly, this is just me and my beliefs, but its against the bible to be bi/gay.
But if u ignore that part then I say just give urself time. Tend to stay with the opposite more though, and examine what does that sex have that the other doesnt.... pick what ever u think u will get more out of. And obvoiusly if u go bi/gay then ur gonna get people to talk smack, so think of pro's and con's.
GL
y do u have to b straight to b with ur friends???? if there really ur friends they wont care! it might seem akward yea but o well! or u could keep it a secret and hope they dont find out ( which its gonna get bak to them someday) so its better to tell them now
I think you should see a specialist for this kind of question. It is okay to be scared to come out. You are still human and your friends if they really care about you they will support you no matter what.
How old are you?
I think I'm bi to but I'm only 14 so things can change.
If your over 16 I would tell your parents that you think you are bi.
talk to yur parents and friends and if there really your friends then they will understand and not even care.your parents should too.-its OK i dont think anyone will make fun of you unless there like 10 or sumthin
Same with one of my friends name Brii. I feel so bad for her. She doesn't want to tell anybody. Except 4 me, cause i've knowm her since Kindergarten. Tell, your closest friends that you've known forever.
If they don't understand, how can they be your real friends.
I have never made the announcement I'm hetrosexual, and I don't think you are obliged to make an announcement either
Keep it one on one