gah help guy trouble?
so i really like this guy
and he is so nice to me
and he flirts with me so much
he will hold my hand and muck around with me
and his best friend says that the guy likes me
but i cant go any further with him unless we were going out
problem is, i dont hink he is planning on asking me out anytime soon
but i really want him to
what should i do?
and please dont say ask him out cause i am way to scared to do that!
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well if you dont want to ask him out,WAIT
why dont you try enjoying the way things are going, i mean what other kind of help is there for this, dont be impatient, it could ruin it
Maybe he's just shy. Maybe you should ask him why he holds your hand and flirts with you all the time.
Don't go any further before you talk. You need to make sure you're both thinking the same way, otherwise you'll just end up hurt and confused.
well I'm sorry, but you should ask him out...He is probably either 1 of 2 things...too shy or scared like you to ask you out, or 2, is a "player" and doesn't want to be tied down...but it sounds more like he's scared to ask you out thinking the same thing as you..."what if she says no?!" get to know him a little better, and start hinting that you want to go out with him...ask him out on a couple dates, like to the movies or beach or whatever...than hit at him by saying things like..."so do you have a girlfriend?" "no" "do you want one?"
If he likes you he might just be too shy to ask you out. I don't see the problem with you asking him out. If you don't then all of this will get no where and you'll end up wishing you asked him. If he likes you then he wont say no.
If your too scared then have a few drinks b4 hand to boost your confidence. There aint no tense situation that a couple drinks cant help
Give him the signals... he might be waiting for a green light from but being not sure if you're ok or not with him. Just give him the damn signals, girl. You can do that, its instinctive, its in your blood. Gosh, why am i saying this?
if he's not going to ask him out and you are afraid of asking him out then nothing will become of this