I'm 13 been wondering if I'm bi-curious. I love girls throughout my whole life but ever since 6th grade I've seen to had an interest in boys? Like there was this one boy that goes to my church I seen him with his shirt off and I felt really gay. But I've also seen this girl in a bathing suit and I felt like I was gonna die. Am I bi-curious or what?
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I don't think you need to label yourself as anything at 13, dude - what you are is just NORMAL!
At 13 (and during most of adolescence), your body is changing and your hormones are going crazy. My guess is over 90% of all guys, if they are really honest with themselves, have at one time or another felt the same as you do right now, Jordan! It is normal to feel a mixture of curiosity and interest in other guys - there is curiosity involved (am I as big as he is, as athletic, as handsome, as strong, etc) and some admiration - liking the way a guy looks or acts and, on some level, hoping you will turn out that way or better. And then there're the girls - they are changing and looking sexier too! So, does feeling this way make me weird? NO - just normal.
Plus, your hormones are raging right now. You may also see a change in your temper/patience. You'll find yourself getting stronger and all those other adolescent things. You will probably experience those other "sexual" things, too, like morning "wood" and wet dreams - all normal.
don't be so hard on yourself. enjoy these years - don't stress over them!!!
It is hard to tell if it is a stage or not, i went through a time like that, and now i am gay. I have friends who went through the same thing and they are now straight.
your growing up so you are curious about other girls. dont worry its a stage.
normal early teenage curiosity
do not to label yourself until you leave adolescence
it's only a stage, don't worry.