Now you may be thinking that i'm quite pleased that i've found a way to hurt her hypocritical, moany, *****-*** self, but I'm not. Although I can really dislike her, she was my first true love - and if i'm honest, i think i'll always have a wee space in my heart for her.
Recently this girl and I have been getting close, and i think we're bound to be dating shortly. I know this will probably really hurt my ex. But she's been pushing me away a lot, asking me to text or phone her like she's all vulnerable and that, then when we have plans to go out somewhere as friends she blows me off (and not in the good way) It's really frustrating how she keeps changing. I'd rather she would always push me away, then i'd stop chasing her.
But should I maybe cool it with this girl i sort of fancy, or just go for it and not give a damn about my ex's feelings?
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Your making yourself way too available for your ex and not moving on with your own life.
Ex's are ex's for a reason and i have about 24 under my belt, I talk to none of them because life moves forwards, not backwards. Im not a player or an idiot but Im not committing to buy a bakery until Ive sampled many cakes, get me?
If you want to date the new girl because you want to spend time with her and make a new life for yourself then do it, if your going to do it to spite your ex then that's just not cricket and you are moving backwards.
Anyone can hurt anyone, especially those with power, it doesn't make it right, nor will it ever do.
My suggestion to you is work on your inner game and realize you are the prize instead of walking with your head down with your testicles swinging between your legs (your ex has this image every time she blows you off).
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