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hello :)

here's my best and most honest opinion and advice.

so, you want a relationship with this girl, and relationships are based very strongly on trust. By lying to her, even if you do get her, it will be bitter sweet because she'll like you thinking your the guy she thinks you are, and with all the social media and things, the word gets out, and don't think for one second her friends wont be keeping a close eye on you to MAKE SURE you don't hurt her. And when she finds out.. it will just be terrible :/ you will have lied to her and you wont have any relation or chance with her again what so ever :/.

so here's my advice:

either you should probably choose between her and weed/cigarettes, which means more to you? Which will benefit you? and if its her you best be sure you stop those things, and if at any point you feel you need them again, you should break things off with her out of respect. because when you respect someone, as you should when you go out with them, you wouldn't lie to them..

OR

you should just find another girl to accept you for what you do, and just be honest with her about it, ever step of your relationship..

I hope this helped you!! and i hope you make the best decision for you! :)

Lying to a girl is not going to improve your relationship with her, nor is it going to make you happy. You may be able to take advantage of her until she finds out the truth, but even then, she will still almost certainly find out eventually. As far as actually quitting goes, quitting both marijuana and cigarettes at the same time is going to be a long, lengthy process. I would still advise you to do it though, as marijuana is an illegal substance and it doesn't sound like you are legally old enough to smoke cigarettes either. This could cause you to get into real trouble, not just with a girl.

Smoking is definitely a turn off.

Only if you are going to quit... -.- smoking is unattractive to most girls :/