I'm just going to be blunt and say that the only way I can reach orgasm is by thinking about nasty girl-on-girl porn. Straight porn just never gets me off. The thing is, I've never been sexually attracted to another girl. And when I do think about it, I don't feel anything. I'm always attracted to boys, and they turn me on too, just not like dirty girl-on-girl stuff does. I think it's just me liking something that's wrong/taboo.. I've never considered myself bi because I don't feel any romantic love for girls, so I'm not at some sexual orientation crisis. Does anyone else feel the same way? Is it possible to be straight but have a turn-on preference for the other gender? I don't want to offend any gays, but could it almost be a fetish for me?
Update:Wow, thank you so much for the help guys. I'd always wondered about this and even felt unnatural about it. I admire all of the girls who stated they felt the same way, because I could have never posted this on my mainstream yahoo account. You were all so comforting, thanks a million.
And Kyle - haha, nice try. :]
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nah thats normal. just because its "unnatural", in a way, its attractive. if you have been watching that stuff ur whole life, it would be normal...basically, your normal. just dont tell anyone haha
I wouldn't worry, its said that everyone in their life will like someone from the same sex atleast once, even if its just a little fetish thing... some people do things about it, and turn gay, others forget about it and in time its just nothing.
Hope this helped.
May be you need to ask your guy to treat you in a way that excites you when you are with a girl. Foreplay is the trick? Toys?
Dude..you are not odd at all... you may need to experiment a little. Most of my friends have had the same dilemma.
It's 2008 go for what you feel, if it's not you you will know...
I feel the same
I like watching girl on girl videos etc
But its just a fantasy and doesn't mean your a lesbian or bi
All girls are naturally bi some just find out earlier and easier than others
im exactly the same way
i think its still possible 2 be straight
as long as ur not actually doing
stuff with another girl
if u don't feel romantic love to girls it still doesn't mean that ur not BI ...try to have 3some (girl, girl, boy).... or sex with a girl ...maybe that what u will like
when i do it i have to think about something like that
although i am bi soooo lol
its just what you like thats all lol
i am the same way!
Hi my name is kyle!!
how are you doing :-)