this girl im nuts about obviously wishes she can be with me, but tells me this: you are to good for me.....i will hurt you.....im not pretty enough........and ive told her time and time again that its not true....shes everything i hoped for.......she was hurt by a guy like 2 years ago and she says she realizes shes not worthy of loving...............its killing me!!!!!! she calls me teddy bear, adorable, cutie, shes always been there weve talked for about a month.....i just cant let it go. she says she cant take me and all this but i know she wants too...........what do i do???? cuz im attached and never want her to go......shes everything.....ive never been like this. shes got low self esteem from all this and uggggh!!!!!!! what do i do???
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talk to her how you feel. just say that you cant stand not being with her. say that YOU think she is pretty. say no, SHE is too good for YOU. you DONT CARE if you get hurt. She is everything you have hoped for. say that guy who hurt you is past, and you are present. say that YOU are not worthy of loving HER. i say its killing you. call her everything that she calls you. say you CANT let it go. say YOU cant take HER. say you are attached and never want her to go. say shes everything. say youve never been like this. kiss her!!! is it that hard?
Get her into counseling...if she can't achieve confidence by herself...then talking to someone close to her or a counselor is what she needs