i like this girl alot.BTW im only 16. we've been talking for about 2 months. i cant really figure out if she like me. the good parts are that we cuddle at night when we hang out. were compfortable around eachother oly when we are hanging out outside of school. we holdhands. have romantic walk in the dark , **** like that. the bad parts are places like school, when we are around other people she acts like she doesnt even like me! im not good friends with her friends but i know them well enough to be with them at school. we dont hold hands in school we hug sometimes and she seems more interested in other people only when were at school. idk if its that shes doing some "girl ignore thing" or what. i really like her but it seem to only be when we are hanging out at our houses. BTW she knows i like her and i havnt asked her i just told her, the most she said so far was that "shes into me". please help(:
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Had a similar situation. I told her, she cut me off completely. Cold shoulder and blank stares. Women are ******* crazy. You can never know. Just tread lightly.
Tell her you feel like she acts different at school - that she kind of ignores you and seems uninterested in you. If you can't talk to each other, you're not going to be able to have any sort of reasonable relationship. And then if you have a good conversation ask her out, right? After two months? What are you waiting for?
Hello there confused,
You cuddle at night and you say that she does not like you?
When you say she is interested in other people, does it mean other "guys?"
Try to tell ask her for a date during weekdays and if it happens that you guys dated for once, rest and do not ask her out again, at least for a month... try to see if she asks you out or if she asks why you did not ask for a date again... If she does that, she is interested in you.
Its very clearthat she is avoiding free publicity. Its a good sign, I think she a kinda girl likes more privacy in her life.
just tell her how you feel.