OK, through is, I have 2 girls that I like equally. But one has been in my life for a lot longer than the other, we have more history and have been through a lot together, and i definetely like her alot, and we have chemistrt, but have never given it a shot. The other girl I have know for like 5 months, and I don't know, it feels so amazing. I've known her for a lot less, and we haven't been through much together, but it feels more natural. Like I feel like I can act myself around her. Like I can act myself around the other too, but I feel like I have to have so much etiquette and manors because she is a lot more classy. Who do I choose?! The one I have history and experience with, or the other that I seem to be more infatuated and have more chemistry with?
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You're going to hate this but no one can answer this but you. Here are some things to think about, because I'm in a similar situation. I like two girls equally and so I'm just in the middle and feel guilty if I like one more than the other. Anyways think about this:
Is there one that you see yourself being with in the future over another?
Would you rather have sex (if at all) with one over another?
Are you closer to one than the other friendship-wise?
Does one make you happier? More butterflies, more exciting, etc?
Do you share common interests with one?
Just think about those things. Also know that you don't have to choose. I mean if you want to be in a relationship then you do but I think you might be happier just being close friends, like really close, with both of them. No romantic or sexual pressure, just beautiful friendship. It's up to you but I hope I helped a little
the one you have more chemistry with, it doesnt matter how long you know someone it just matters how much theyve impacted your life