Theres this boy that I'm really good friends with we're always laughing and talking to each other when we see each other in school and if we pass in the hallway we will say something. Now recently he's started to tell me that he feels really comferable around me and feels like he's known me my whole life even though we only really knew eachother this year and that I'm like a sister to him. Theres only 1 problem I REALLY LIKE HIM A LOT! what should I do. And how can I get him to like me in more of a girlfriend kind of way?
Update:In other words I really like him what I do?
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I was in a similar situation with the guy that I'm with now, only we didn't go to the same school. We were best of friends for a year and stuff then he started going out with my best friend. They broke up and it was really hard on my best friend so I told her that I would never go out with him. Yes, as foolish as it may seem, I had an amazing amount of feelings for him. But I played along and said, "Haha, yes, we're like brother and sister."
Well, long story short, we got past that [so I thought] and we started going out. Then, he just randomly comes along one day and says "It's akward because we used to be like brother and sister." etc. So, that ended, we were still friends and now we're "together" again, I suppose, though not exclusive.
See, boys are undecisive and it may take some time for them to realize their true feelings for you. I think you are blessed to have such a good friend but, hon, you can't MAKE him like you. Just be who you are, and that's what he loves you for, is being you. Just give it time and maybe someday, he will like you in the way you like him. If you really like him, you shouldn't tell him, so you don't make it akward between you two. But, if the time comes along when you just can't take it and you NEED to tell him, do so. But in the right way. Just cherish what you have with him, because it's better than nothing.
Talk to him. Tell him how you really feel about him. Say if things don't work out you can always go back to being good friends. Hope you two work out. ROCK ON!!
you haft to tell him the way you feel or you will purminatly be the giry a guy can talk to and neve the girl a guy will date
I KNOW I WAS THAT PERSON IN HIGH SCHOOL