There is this boy who i really like and i think he only likes me as a good friend. During school I don't see him much but we talk in the morning and at lunch. I really want to ask him out or tell him how I feel but I don't know how to do that without wrecking our friendship. He has a great personality, makes me laugh, and cheers me up when I'm sad. and is really cute to. HELP! What should I do?
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I should have this answer on a notepad and just paste it in whenever I see this question come up?
LIFE IS VERY SHORT. ACT NOW!
Just tell him. In the long-term scheme of things, you don't have that much to lose and you could be spending your time actually with him instead of wondering. That's the adult thing to do. IF he doesn't have the same feelings, well then you just need to deal with it and move on. Carrying around hidden love (or like) is way more painful than rejection is.
Make a move girl.
As a girl if you want to get attention from a guy, there are many efficient and fundamental ways to do so. Let's assume that you do not know very well the guy but would like to know him better or to date him. The most common ways to get his attention:
Smiling politely at him; make sure that he sees it.
Say "HI" to him whenever you see him in the hallway; a little hand wave is great as well.
Try to share common interests. If he loves sports, perhaps join him in the same activity.
Talk to one of his friend to learn more about him or to send the message.
Send him a card on Valentine's Day.
Communication is very important. You might want to take the first step to talk to him; this can be as simple as "Hey, what's up." in the hallway. Don't forget to include a nice smile.
Ask him if he wants to hang out after school sometime. That is not asking him out and it is just being a friend. If he excepts then maybe he likes you also and you can go fom there. If not then no hurt feelings because hey you were only asking him to hang out, not for a date. Maybe he just had things to do.
Try and drop hints that you like him and see how he reacts. If he's really your friend, then there's no way you can wreck your relationship, just make it better ! Have fun!
Nobody knows. Your question is one of lifes gambles. Lose a good friend, or gain someone you love. Stay good friends and be happy, or be lovers and prepare for the heartbreak.
I think you should atleast let him know how you feel! What could it hurt, especially if he's single. Go for it, if you don't you'll just spend the rest of your life wondering,"What if"!!!
yeah you should tell him and if you are really good friends then i don't see it wrecking your relationship
Write him a letter
You should flirt with him and show him that you want to be more than just friends.
go for it
swallow and then talk
he will tell you how that made him feel