boy trouble?
okay so i thought i was in love with this guy but he cheated on me so we broke up but now we have started to hook up.
now one of my best friends is in love with me and i like him but hes to needy and has no self confidence and when we have fights he does some bad thingss. what do i do?
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FORGET BOTH OF THEM. One cheated on you (which he will do again almost certainly) and the other one is a jerk. You don't deserve to be treated badly by either of them or settle for less than a great guy. Once your done w/ both of them, you'll be open to meeting a new, great guy.
OBVIOUSLY YOU ARE IN DUAL RELATIONSHIP HERE AND NEED TO SORT OUT THINGS IN THE BEST POSSIBLE WAYS THAT IS BENEFICIAL TO YOU.
firstly I c that you are in love with the first guy cos you have forgiven him and are back together so I get a feeling that you both have sorted out your differences.
Secondly I c the complication of another guy-- but here the decision is very easy as you have a bad impression of the guy in your mind about he being low on confidence and is needy type. Even if you decide on this second guy it can lead to complications later in life as your subconscious mind will make small notes of the guys short comings to his low self esteem and lead to bad scenes.
Problem solved by taking in the first guy n dumping the second..........
firstly, biiiig mistake hooking up with someone who cheated on you. In my opinion people like that are always going to be cheaters, so i think you should stay clear of that guy. And the second guy doesnt sound much better, you make it sound like you have fights quite regulary. Just some advice: maybe you should clean your hands of both of them and just 'be friends' with them, they dont sound suitable enough for a relationship. goodluck :)
dont do anything with both of them becus your going to ruin your life if you go out with one of them. if you do go out with the one who cheated on you then ask your self this question- are you willing to go out with someone who cheated on you. you'll be worrying wher his been and fighting for no reason at all. have you ever heard of - onces a CHEATER always a cheater. and if you go with the one your not with i mean are you going to be happy with either one of them? seriouly think about what your going to do, i think you deserve more better guy that both of them.