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The problem is that you are too young to be dating and especially going steady. You need to be seeing other people and now trying to decide the kind of a guy that you like.

Your friends should not be deciding your personal life and what boyfriend you should have.

You can tell him that you don't want to go steady because you feel you are too young. If things are too serious with you (he wants sex) then you need to tell him that you are not having sex until you are married. That may send him away. If you have had sex then it is a probelm as he will always be wanting sex and you will not really get to know one another as he will want sex more than he really wants you for yourself.

Try to think about why you don't want to go steady with him. Would your father or mother make you break up if they knew you were going steady? If so, tell them and listen to them. Realize that if all your girlfriends have a boyfriend that they may not be as close to you in the future. At least they may not be as close until they break up as well. When I was your age I was having different boyfriends and there was no sex involved at all. But I changed my mind and wanted to date different people. I realized that 14 was too young to date and m kids didn't date until they were closer to 16. They were over 18 before they dated steady. They found loving spouses and have been married for some time. Their marriages lasted. Good luck to you. Don't let others force you into any kind of relationship. Good luck to you. It is a good idea for girls and boys to go places together and not necessarily as a date. are your girlfreinds willing to go places and have other girls or guys go along/ That would be ideal.

be honest with him. sometimes the truth hurts but in the future it might help him with other relationships. and don't be with someone just because your friends think you guys are perfect its your life live it as you want. if they're your real friends they'll support you with any decision you make.