well i like this guy in my class he sits in front of me. we have been getting or really well. when he talks to me he always smiles. and when we hug he rubs my back and the other day when he said goodbye to me after school he looked back and smiled. but i still don't know if he likes me the way i like him or if he just likes me as a friend. i want to tell him that i like him but im scared that he wont like me back and i would of lost a friend and he might never talk to me again! help me what should i do!?
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I know you said that you're scared and I completely understand but try, at the end of the day life moves on and if he doesn't feel the same way you'll eventually go back to being his friend...Don't live life thinking "What if?" Good luck.
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when he hugs you rub his neck or lower back. When he sits in front of you, play with his ear or his hair. Send him little signs, I think he likes you. I do the same things to a girl I like.
those are definetely signs, he's interested. he's most likely just as shy and nervous as you are! the only real way to find out if he likes you without messing things up is to just keep on doing what your doing. the guy should make the first move. and if this goes on long enough for him to see how fun and flirty and down to earth you are, he will!(:
he rubbed your back? that seems very over friendly to me!
you shouldn't be scared of rejection. it's either he likes you, or he doesn't. if he does, you'll be really happy. if he doesn't, then you know, and you can move on. as for losing him as a friend, you will either way.
i am only 13 but i delt with this alot. you can ether never ask him and wonder for ever or you can get the guts to ask him. i am 98% certant that he likes you but is to afraid to tell you. and if it turns out he dosnt like you the same way you like him dont worry nothing will change. me and this boy were freinds eversence the 3rd grade and he asked me out. i told him i just dont feel like dating and if anything it made us better friends because we know anything can happen and we can stay freinds.
Does he have any friends you know?
Because this happened to me before, and I asked one of his close friends
to ask him, dude, who do you like?
usually this works, cause i found out her liked me,
then i had the friend tell him that he thinks i like him.
Its a good system to use when your scared of telling him!!
Let him make the first move. You are already putting out the signals. Doesn't anyone think a girl should play hard to get???
I doubt he would give you sincere hugs if he just wanted to be friends. At the very least, he is being flirty with you.
I dont really have an answer, but if ur being nice to him and keep at it you will eventually find out if he does. Just keep at it.