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u kno wat! u got the guy and u have HIM 2 prove it! and if she gives u additude A.be nice or B. give hur additude 10 times harder! U go girllll

it should be obvious that she's not a threat to you at all.. especially if the feeling you get from him is as you described, ..."he despises her"

Ignore her and carry on with your day as usual.

Wear something that makes you look hot. Like a nice sundress or something that is discretely appropriate for a "church event" but still shows off enough leg, and cleavage to keep your mans eyes on you and not be irritated by her presence

for apple picking something obviously not too flashy, if ya get what i mean, and that girl.. not much we can do nor you for that matter, depends how she reacts.. i guess just ignore all the rude things she may say..

good luck ;D

if he despises her then it doesn't really matter just ignore her and stuff.

ypou should wear a pair of jeans and a t shirt and light jewelry.

girl forget about the ex, the guy is with you now so stop tripping

shorts and a tanktop and you should stay as far away from her as possible and not even look in her direction...