I'm a freshman in high school and I have a boyfriend. There's this girl who's been my friend more maybe a year and a half. We're best friends. It wasn't until back in December that I started to kind of have feelings for her. We were at a party together and it was her first time drinking. We were both drunk and I kept kissing her. She didn't really kiss me back but she didn't ask me to stop. So we made out a little bit. I didn't realize I liked her until that moment, but of course I was denying it to myself. I thought I was straight!! So the next day, she made it seem like she didn't want to do anything that we did together and that I somewhat forced her into it. As time went on, my feelings started getting stronger and stronger for her. Then, last night, we went to another party together. We both got super drunk, and this time she got WASTED. She kept calling me pretty and kissed me multiple times. We made out again, but this time I could tell she wanted it. I'm not sure if it's cause she was drunk or maybe it meant something. But we both have boyfriends. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE my boyfriend. But I really like this girl, a lot. I'm not sure what I should do... I can't tell her. It isn't that simple. I don't want to ruin our friendship. But this morning we just laughed about what happened last night, like it meant nothing. She seemed slightly more eager to chat with me though on Facebook. But I'm so lost on what I should do. Help??
Update:I also want to add that I can't exactly see myself actually dating a girl... I mean maybe, but nothing 'formal' if you know what I mean? I'm mean, she gorgeous and adorable and I love kissing her and stuff, but I don't know... Having a girlfriend just seems kind of weird to me. So like I said, I don't know what to do?!?!
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Im sorry but i think ur friend just was kissing u cause she was drunk. U may however be lesbian. A lesbian can still love her boyfriend but in a more brother /best friend type way. Or u could be strait and could feel that sister besstfriend wayabout her and love ur boyfriend in a boyfriend way. Make sure u know which is which kind of love. If she was laughing it off she is probably trying to make it seem like she thinks its funny and did it on porpose. Or thinks ur a lesbian and is subtly trying to show u it was a mistake without making u feel like she hates ur love or hurt ur feelings. Kepp cakm ur only a freshman. U have time to figure itall outbut dont come to conclusions to fast. Im not saying that u should be one strait or lesbian. Im just saying be sure when or if u come out because its hard to go back once youve been labeled and it may cause u to lose alot of friendships.
Since she's your best friend you shouldn't have a problem discussing it with her. Just be subtle with your words and don't give off too much detail at first, by that I mean don't go telling her that you have homosexual feelings right of the bat. Maybe just say to her, "hey you know when we get super drunk and stuff and we kiss, is it it just for funsies or are you kind of serious?" Just something along those lines but not too direct.
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I would have a serious talk with her, about it. When you are drunk. True feelings come out. Yall both like each other, yall just gonna have to talk to each other.
Woah therrrr. Y'all are a lil too young but anyways, lol talk to her about it. Wish I could do all that