school trouble!?!?
its been 2 years that i have moved in a new city and i am in a private school but i dont get on with my friends.I really want them to like me and i want to get on well with them but i dont know what to do sometimes i am invisible for them they talk me only when we have difficult exams! i really dont know what to do should i change my school? how can i get closer with them?
p.s teacher are very nice and good at their job.
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Those were the good ol' days. Sweetie, don't you worry about a thing. All you have to do is to first of all, accept who you are. The next is to be yourself. don't put up a front.When your peers talk amongst themselves,they are actually trying to figure you out.Real recognizes real.So when that happens you will attract to you those of your kind.Continue to do you and watch how fast they will flock.
If your friends are not receptive to you and treat you as a friend after two years it is probably time to find some new friends. If they know you only when there is a difficult exam they're not really your friends, they are just using you and how unfortunate for them that they are so shallow. The world is a very big place, extend yourself in friendship to someone in your school who like yourself is alone and I think you will be amazed in the difference that you can make both in your life and in hers. Good luck to you.
I used to go through the same thing. Let me get this one fact straight with you - if they only talk to you when they need something from you, they're NOT your real friends. Real friends would be there for you every step in the way, and not leech on you like parasites.
I know you want them to like you, and that's okay. However, my advice is that you find people who TRULY care about you and not just your ability to help them. Find real friends who will make you happy and stop trying to please people who only want to take advantage of you.
I know this can be hard to do, and it will take time. But it's worth it, I promise. Best of luck.
You have to participate in their group discussions & talk as you are capable for being their friend like your language should be quite intelligent that everyone give attention to your talking & most important your jokes
i can understand u. even in my school i face this kind of problems. dont worry. is it that u dont talk much to ur classmates? talk to them, be friendly, introduce yourself and ask abt them. let them know u r friendly. be positive. some things u just cant rush. be patient with them. maybe they r shy bcos u r new?
i would talk to them and see why they are treating you like dirt.if that don't work then i would dump the friends and find better ones that will treat you right.
they are not really ur freinds. just talk to them