Me and my bf have been seeing each other for about 2 1/2 months. and about 2 weeks ago i was talking to my ex about our past relationship. needless to say he was drunk and said some pretty hurtfull things. i was pissed off and on the verge of crying. Then i started to talk to my current bf and was asking some pointless questions, when the question would you ever go out with a sertain girl at school who is a slut. but every guy wants her. and he said well i really dont no her but if i did i would. and then about 5 min later he said but im goin out with you like he had forgoten all about me. and i am a very jelouse person because i have had my heart riped out and handed to me. what do you think this means? do you think he really wants to go out with her? do you think he will breakup with me to get with her? plz help!!
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Youre in high school I assume. Keep in mind these are boys you are dating not men. They will say things without thinking and are still somewhat immature. You should let it go and give him the benefit of the doubt.
Heres An Idea. Don't Ask Your Boyfriend Questions You Dont Want The Answer To. Women Tend To Do That Alot. They Also Tend To Be Hurt When The Guy Is Actually Honest. Unfortunatly If He Does Actually Break Up With You To Go For Her.... You Put Her In His Head.
ok calm down.i just got out of a 7 month relationship and one of the main reasons it ended was cause i got jealous too easily.for some stupid reason guys cant stand when girls are too jealous.(i suppose they like to have their freedom.)but you two have been together for almost 3 months,so most likely hes datin you cause he wants to be with you-only you.i know its hard not to get jealous,but try.i have had my heart ripped out plenty of times and hurts like a mother on crack,let me tell ya.but enjoy the time you have with him.live in the moment,dont think about the past or present.youve got a good thing goin for ya just try your very hardest to keep that green monster away for your feelings toward your special someone.i hope that helped you!e-mail me at [email protected]
That is pretty confusing, but I think I got it. Maybe he was just trying to push your buttons. I would talk to him about it. Even if you have to do it in a note or online, do it. Any way is better than just letting the issue sit there. Tell him to tell you the honest truth. If he really wants to date other people, there's not much you can do. I have had my heart broken many, many times and it sucks but you deserve to be with someone who likes you!! :)
sadlly yeas so girl all u have to do is love ur bf show him love care and all the things that make him happy so he could forget about that gril and stay with u
He is not going to break up with you. He is just young and wasn't thinking when he said that. You don't have to be jealous because he is YOUR boyfriend, not hers.
it means he's trying to get you back! He's trying to get you jelouse, I dont think he likes her, but still he also might be saying i like this girl and acutally like her, and try to hurt your feelings!
That didn't make sense. Speak clearly next time (try using names)
ok, there is no such thing as guy trouble. seeing as tho guys are the best! MUWAHAHHAAHAHA. should be called girl trouble, cause they always cuase the problems! Just kidding, felt like writing that... cya
hes not going to break up with you. he really isnt