ok here is the problem me and my boyfriend has been together a year and half after a year together we moved in together i lived there for about two months when one day he came treating me like a stranger an the day before we were so happy so when all of this happened it came out of nowhere so we decided to take a break from eachother its been a month since we have been seperated my mom passed away when i did move back home but he was there for me but still he says he loves me but not in love with me an he see me as his future he just needs time .i don't know what to do should i stay or just leave him alone to see what its like not to have been in his life.i know i do love him .one more thing do you think he could have cheated an feeling guilty??/?
Update:we both are 28 year old by the way
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I think you should do exactly what he ask give him some time, all the time he wants. Stop the calls and visits. Let him call you or come see you but don't make yourself to available to him. Let him know how it feels to not have you by his side. Also go have some fun by yourself or with your girls, make some new friends male and female. See what else is out there.
I think that u should leave him alone and let him feel what is like to be lonely, if he does love u then he has to be in love with u. He is guilty of something, he was cheating on u. Just get out before its too late, this guy is not serious he is just playing games with your heart and having u wrap around his finger like a little toy
How young are you two - If he is a young man honey he wants to play the field - he was obviously seeing someone else and now she finally gave him some cookies and it's newer than yours so I say homeboy is enjoying his freedom, enjoy yours or you'll be miserable.