Okay so I’m an 18 year old girl who’s still a Virgin and has a boyfriend. I was ready a year ago..but he wasn’t so we waited, but we had done everything else. Easily fit 2 fingers, 3 hurt But 2 was very comfortable. I have also used toys, quite a bit actually, but none life size. So we ended up trying. I was comfortable, actually not nervous at all, but when he went in it hurt REALLY bad. I have a high enough pain tolerance to get tattooed for 6 hours straight on my leg but this was bad. It felt like I was getting ripped open. So I’m curious as to the problem. I was wet but he got super excited and stuck it in early lmao, and he was wearing a condom, so was it because it wasn’t wet enough and dry latex hurts or am I just too tight? We had been messing around for a good year and I’d be using things on myself to put on shows for him. So anyway he got a good 3 inches in and I had to ask him to stop, I’m actually afraid to go again. Should I just use lube/more foreplay or spend more time trying to stretch it out?
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here is your problem "I was wet but he got super excited and stuck it in early lmao"
sex does not stretch out your vagina. but sufficient foreplay causes it to easily open to fit a penis. you may have been "comfortable" but you were no where near turned on enough for penetration. when you are aroused enough for sex the cervix moves up out of the way so that it is not getting punched at a mere 3 inches. you should be close to orgasm through foreplay before you allow him to "stick it in" being wet happens very early in arousal, that does not mean aroused enough for penetration
Sometimes condoms can cause irritations, so definitely add extra lube (look for natural kinds). Also spending a lot longer beforehand getting physically aroused before trying any kind of entry helps (think: several additional hours" instead of "several additional minutes".)
Lube def
Lube, definitely. Make him wait next time, okay? With the right amount of foreplay your v@gina will loosen up, sometimes up to 8 inches, and it won't hurt. I'm sorry it hurt this time.
Relax just enjoy it will happen when your ready, it will be a bit sore but it's all worth it,
I suggest using lube and more foreplay to loosen up a bit.
I lost my virginity to my husband and I just had to be in pain for at least 6 months till then it was hurting but later it started to feel good you just have to go through the pain. sorry
That seems normal to me. My first times hurt a lot. If I go a while without sex, it can feel like losing it again, or like when my ex and I didn't see each other over spring break or something it took us a few minutes to get going. Just tell him to wait, leave it in and make it out. It helps me.
I'm "the guy", everyone. She's lying. I actually put it in her brown one, dry. I never even got to the pink one as she seemed fine with me dumping my nuts in her back door.
Why do young guys post these things?
Don't they have enough Cheetos, soccer friends or astroglide to take their mind off trolling Y/A?
Lube and plenty of good, hot foreplay should do the trick. Relaxing helps, too.