Im 15 and im considering losing my virginity its not like im being pressured by my boyfriend of 10 months but ive been feeling different kinds of emotionally and sometimes just talking leads to something physical but ive already told my mom and she didnt trip about it she said she just wanted to get me on birth control....Im just wondering am i too young and how am i supposed to be sure that he is the one i want to give it to.
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Yep, that is pretty young and once you do, your emotions and feeling for your boyfriend will skyrocket. Guys don't get attached like girls do when there is sex involved in a relationship.
But, if you do, make sure you have your mom take you to the dr to get you on birth control. Also, you should always use a condom because the pill won't protect you from HPV and 1 in 5 adults have it so it is really really common.
You obviously take it seriously if you are asking about it so try and wait unitl you are ready because 15 is very young, very young to deal with the complicated emotions that come along with having sex.
Good luck :)
Give this very deep thought and consideration because once your virginity is gone it is gone for good, I always wished I could have saved myself for my husband and regret losing my virginity at 17 with a boyfriend who I was with for about a year when I was 17 and I really thought our relationship was strong and that we were going to be together for ever but things got weird and we broke up I was crushed and couldn't do anything about it, when you give something like that away you are Truly giving your heart away and yes you are kind of to young to have sex and giving you birth control pills is kinda like promoting you to have sex although if you are gonna do it still use a condom because even though you can't see an STD does not mean its not there.
Good luck and best wishes
I considered having sex when i was fifteen to someone who was older and i waited. I lost my virginity a year ago, when i was 18 and i do not regret it. Just try to think about three years from now. Say your boyfriend leaves you or cheats on you or he moves away, are you going to regret it? or are you just going to live in the moment? The person you think you are now is someone than you will be in the next three years. but it is up to you
I personally don't feel people are ready for sex until they are ready to deal with the possible consequences of sex- namely babies, STDs and emotional issues. Are you ready to deal with an unwanted pregnancy? Do you have the financial means to take care of a baby without depending on anyone but your boyfriends (job, money for car, insurance, rent, food, etc)? Can you deal if you catch an STD? Can you deal with the emotional ramifications of finding out he doesn't love you, etc? These are just some things to think about.
when you loose your virginity so young, a piece of you dies.. and you have to live with that regret for the rest of your life.
if you do it now, you'll be dragged down with the rest of societies moral decline into a pit they struggle to get out of.
haven't you heard people say, 'if only i could have turned back time, or if only i had waited..'
especially since your not sure if he's the right one for you.
my advice is wait until marriage, do it with the guy your meant to be with for the rest of your life. you'll be doing yourself the biggest favour and be a better role model for others.
At least you are thinking about it before doing it. I'm pretty sure most people realize later that they never should have lost their virginity to the person they lost it to. You will never KNOW for sure if you are ready or if this person is the right person, but if it feels right and he treats you right, then at least you know it will be enjoyable and that he will be gentle etc with you.
you are still too young. sex is for marriage only, so you should wait till then. whats the point any way? for a few minutes of fun? like it will even make a difference. I am pretty sure youre husband will appreciate it more if you were a virgin when you get married...
I'm 15 as well. Where I go to school its not unusual for girls to be virgins when they turn 15. even 14 for that matter. You might say were a school of sluts, and that's somewhat correct.
If you think you're too young, you're probably still not ready.
Although, I do agree with your mom if you intend on having sex "soon", like within the next few months, you should get on birth control.
it hurrrttttssss lol but if you feel physically emotionly and mentally ready go for it make sure you have old blankets and clothes cuz i had bloode evry were my shirt was white andi had bloode all on it it wuz on his pellows and blankets his floor his balls lmao its gonna hurt im jus lettin you no and im 15 lost my virginaty 4 months ago its worht it at the end cuz its enjoyable but expect alot of screaming crying and scraching lol