I'm a 19 year old guy and EVERY relationship I've been in ended with the girl cheating and leaving me for another guy. A girl had never said she loved me until my most recent relationship. We were together for awhile and we eventually said we loved each other when we would say goodbye and things like that. But, she left me for another guy that she met, so now I think everything she said was a lie. I sacrificed a lot for her and I'd still do anything for her. I know there are very few people who actually give a s*** about me. I've come to the point that I shut everyone out. I'm not trying to sound all high and mighty, but I'm sick of giving and giving to this world but getting nothing in return. I don't believe in karma. I don't believe in much anymore. When will it be my turn to meet someone and actually be happy for the first time in my life?
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1) it doesnt work like that. hating yourself in the beginning + expecting relationship to magically make everything better = fail
2) havent you ever heard of "you have to love yourself before someone else can love you."
3) it will be your turn when you learn to be happy with yourself instead of trying to find your happiness in others
4) i believe in 'the secret' ya know that book/ the movie? positive mind set = positive events will happen. be sad all the time = the world will be a cruel place to you, youll see everything bad that will happen, bad things will just seem to be attracted to you yada yada yada. its not karma/darma. it has nothing to do with whether or not youre a bad person/ the good deeds youve done. it has everything to do with your mind set starting when you get out of bed in the morning. idk it talks about if youre positive about life you will attract good things in the universe to happen to you and vice versa. honestly when i watched the movie i was thinking 'what a load of crap this is' and then i just thought about things... idk how the universe work, i know **** about the universe so why cant this be real? its some what logical. i consider myself to be a lucky person and my mind set is ok or better almost every day. soo yeah :O i cant believe i havent used a single smiley face in this huge thing i typed up O_O i love these little faces
5) this is advice coming from a 17 year old girl who has never been in a relationship let alone had my first kiss so ya know... i think that my advice is really good though thank you very much. maybe its a good thing ive never been in love for i can give peeps advice without having a mind clouded with loves evil magic sorcery messing up my brain. am i right or am i right?
AND **** RELATIONSHIPS I GET HUGS FROM GUYS LIKE 2 TIMES A YEAR I SUCK AT FLIRTING **** THAT IM STILL A ******* GODDESS YOU HERE ME IM PERFECT IM WONDERFUL IM FUNNY IM SEXY MY BOOBS ARE KINDA SMALL BUT **** THAT IM HAPPY WITH MY BOOBS MOST GUYS LIKE BOOBS THEY DONT CARE THAT MY BOOBS ARE SLIGHTLY LESS THAN AVERAGE IM STILL HOT I AM HOT SAUCE IM BEAUTIFUL SAUCE AND SOMEONE WILL EAT ME I SWEAR TO GOD AND I WILL BE THE SPICIEST THING THEY HAVE EVER TASTED I WILL JUST ******* BLOW THERE MIND
do you understand now child? i tell myself this every morning when i look in the mirror (no not really sometimes i forget but i told my self this just now so everything's ok and im happy) also i do my make up while listening to this song:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-M6UYwaYRqw
you feel me dawg?
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OMGOMGOMOMG IM SO LONELY PLEASE CALL ME WE CAN BE TOGETHER FOREVER HES MY NUMBER ILL TEXT YOU AND CHIZ 473Y574247287 KK no im kidding i dont know you ._.) but you seem sweet *pets* be my pet
PERFECT ISNT EAAASSSYYY BUUUTTTT ITTTSSS MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE <3 damn i love that movie
ok well im going to go. hopefully i wasnt to annoying. stay strong kiddo life is beautiful *-*
ok im sorry that was probably really annoying of me to say but DAMN LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL OMG IM SORRY IM LEAVING YAHOO BETTER POST MY ANSWER CAUSE I SPENT LIKE 15 MINUTES TYPING THIS AND YAHOO IS BEING STUPID i know ill copy my answer just incase something funky happens woot woot
are you effin kidding me. yahoo is under construction of some **** this is ridiculous THIS IS AN OUTRAGE I WANT TO LEAVE THIS CHATBOX ANSWER THING ALREADY IM TIRED AND I WANT TO LOOK AT CLOTHES AND BUY STUFF *whyte gurl tantrum* no i aint even whyte boi im sorry if that was racist. if youre a white gurl reading this im truly sorry BUT IM KIDDING
no losa racist jokes are never funny wtf is wrong with you be ashamed of yourself (my name i losa) HA I KNOW WEIRD RIGHT BUT ITS PRETTY AND UNIQUE LIKE ME GOD IM SORRY IM BEING SO ANNOYING BUT YAHOO WONT LET ME EXIT AND I REALLY WANT TO POST MY ANSWER CAUSE I THINK THIS IS SOME GOOD **** I TYPED UP CMOOOONNNN IM SO SAD im trying again now...
well... f this im going to look at clothes until yahoo fixes itself!!!!!!!!