OK, so I know this is a weird question -- but I truly believe I have to some extent narcissistic disorder. Although it may not have anything to do with it, I'm 95% sure my dads dad has it as well. The things that make me feel I have it is I'm overly obsessed with body image (I'm thinking about it almost constantly, what I can do to look better, what's wrong with X areas of my body, ect.) however, one thing I do not have (depending on my mood) is I'm sometimes shy (usually only when I'm with family) however, other times I'm confident, energetic, ect.
And, I really don't think I need "help" even if I do have this, actually I'm quiet happy I think being narcissistic gets a lot of personal gain, and gets you far in life, I truly don't care to cut someone out of the picture of they are messing with goals, I don't mean killing or anything like that -- but setting up social situations or getting them in trouble if I don't like them.
I'm still not 100% sure if I have narcissism, and I don't really see the downfalls of said disorder either, is it bad to think like this?
Also, I *hate* being bothered by my parents, or anything -- I love my family, but 99% of the time I want to be alone, and not be bothered. I also have feelings of judging people at school, thinking I'm too good to talk to them, ect and feeling if I do talk to them, my own social reputation will drop. I also like to manipulate people and social situations, and I like for teachers at school to like me *a lot*, by manipulating I mean doing something to get a better outcome, half the time I'll be doing it and not even notice, for example, talking my way out of situations, ect. I don't think I'm a sociopath, as I do have feelings for people, and I wouldn't go as far to say as I don't have a consciousness, it's just I do care about myself a lot more than I believe most other people do, it's just very weird describing as I've never really 'typed' it out and expressed how I feel.
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I have NPD myself. It is impossible to tell anyone if they have NPD without a proper diagnosis from a specialist, but I'll tell you what I think.
How old are you?.. because narcissistic traits tend to be high in children and teenagers, and then die down. However, no matter the age, narcissistic tendencies are present to some degree in everyone. Selfishness, wanting the best for yourself, thinking you are better than certain others... these traits can all be found in people without personality disorders.
You sound normal to me. You think highly of yourself and want the best for yourself, and your shy.
As far as being a narcissist, you are correct that narcissism is not synonymous with sociopath, although we lack (but are not necessarily absent of) empathy. You may be specifically a somatic narcissist; I for example am both somatic, cerebral, possibly inverted, probably high-functioning, etc narcissist... though I don't really understand it when psychologists come up with all these sub-types.
You sound normal because you mention none of the really key indicators of narcissism: not being able to handle (completely breaking down from) any criticism, believing you naturally deserve more than others / feel as if you are destined to succeed, and feel a true "high" or "fulfillment" when you receive compliments and praise from others.
As previously mentioned, the only narcissistic diagnosis close to describing you would be a somatic narcissist; but you really do sound normal... or at least not have NPD.
wow.....i think I am the same. holy mother of god i think I'm narcissist too. Haha to be honest it doesn't sound like you are a narcissist, I am the same way except for the manipulating and social situations part. It's good that you care about the way you look and have some confidence (isn't that normal, everyone should do this). As far as the not talking to certain people in school, I understand that, because some people I just can't seem to connect with either and if they're are in to certain things or look kinda well...bummy, then I don't talk to them or I rarely would. It sounds like you should have your own group of friends or people that have some of the same similarities; people that are confident, present or try to look good, and aren't for lack of better words...lame. I don't really "like" being around my family too much either cause my parents are just interested in different things and are corny alot, and my siblings have age gaps so yeah. I'm no psychologist or whatever but you don't seem too bad, just into your own stuff, just hope you don't become vain. Just realize that there may be some point in time where you know, you should talk to that "awkward" seeming person and if you have or know enough people they would understand that hey you are friendly or something like that, you never know. Half the time people aren't really even paying that much attention to other regular people anyway
You certainly sound narcissistic. Whether you're clinically narcissistic or just a little selfish/full of yourself I can't say. Being that I have two people in my family who are clinically diagnosed with this I can say there are definitely downsides. Narcissistic personalities have a very difficult time maintaining meaningful relationships with others as they can't fully grasp the concept of empathy (in particular, but not the only reason). Some of the traits run parallel to that of sociopaths. I would mostly be concerned with how you effect the people around you. Narcissistic personalities can hurt those around them quite a bit because they have a tendency to lead a rather solipsistic existence. They have feelings for others but their personal feelings/perceptions are always more important/correct so it's really rather moot.
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Of course he is narcissistic and arrogant (and his wife Michelle is also.) How odd that the media would even recognize this trait in him, unless, of course, they find it admirable. These are not especially attractive qualities, as far as I am concerned. I'd much rather have him be honest and upstanding, trustworthy and responsible. I do not believe that he meets my standards but he is what we got. He has promised all kinds of "goodies" for the people and I would rather doubt that he can keep those promises. I saw where Michelle was quoted as saying that we all need to cut back and live within our means, not overspend but keep those pursestrings tightened up in these hard times. Then I saw the receipt for her luncheon for two which amounted to $400 + and I could see that she has no intention of living like the rest of us. She is as big a fraud as he is. (Lobster and caviar (caviar cost $150. for that same luncheon). All of this was paid by the people, not by the Obamas. I call that a bit arrogant. It's going to be a long and expensive four years of this type of arrogance!!
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yes you have a narcissistic disorder but as you said : just stay alone and it won't bother anyone. You're happy with your situation, so where is the problem !
It's good you've recognised it and I'm sure there are different types of narcissism. Definitely get help though because it will affect your future relationships and ultimately effect you.
you check if you have the symptoms of narcissistic disorder on wikipedia!