So... for the longest time i've wanted a to be in a relationship with someone, or at least have ONE gay friend, buuuut its not working out in my favor, in fact it's a disaster. I've lost a good friend because I had hopes for he and I being in a relationship then I found out how he felt about not just homosexuals but interracial relationships(he's prejudiced), and I am no longer friends with him. Anyhow, my strong desire to want to be in a relationship has just slowly faded away, Is this normal to you? I just feel empty, I mean I still check guys out but I don't cling to the thought of them for more than a few minutes... I don't know, It's almost like I could care less about love or my future with anyone. What's happening, any advice?
Update:I still like guys and am not attracted to women! I just don't crush on them anymore.
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And now that you're not looking i assure you that you will find it... it's just how things work.
Im so sorry to hear about the problems you are experiencing. I have had the same problem myself.
I told my friend that I liked him and he never talks to me anymore. But then were we really friends at that point anyway?
I get real lonely also, want and need some friends too. I am told that I just have to wait and be patient. its hard to just wait and wait.
For some it seems to comes easy while others seem to struggle with it. I thought that I had it but now maybe it seems that I never really had it. I just seem to satisfy his needs.
hang in there baby.
To be honest, I really don't think you love him anymore. I'm sorry but I am not gay. However, I think you're changing. I think that you are turning straight (I'm being perfectly serious). The empty part may be a side-effect of that change. I'm sorry I couldn't help any further.
i honestly think that is just time to concentrate on other things school, work, yourself? a boy should be part of your amazing universe not your universe. relax... don't take relationships too seriously go with the flow.. if they happen cool if they don't thats cool too.. i promise the right person will find you...
Just clear your mind, love
You have been trying to hard it seems
So you just need a break
Get your thoughts together and relax
Then look for love
But you're honestly more likely to find it when you're not looking
Then when you are
<3 Trust me
Just go with the flow. Take a break from it, forget about relationships for a while, and then when you least expect it, love with bite your ^sshole.
start with finding some gay friends and take it from there, you'll have someone to relate to
Don't give up the right one will COME along.
same situation but stop lookin theyll come around
So you just want to be gay because you are bored?