Hi, how are you all? I'm Bi-curious... I don't know... I mean I don't have "girl crushes"
I like guys, and always have. But I think I'm also sexually attracted to girls too, If I see a girl (usually in pictures) with like half her boobs showing or her *** I wouldn't be very turned on. I would also, watch lesbian porn at times, but then the next day I would be very disgusted with myself (for watching porn/seeing the pictures)
I don't know what to do about this I want to be straight, I think I am, and I say I am, but now I'm not so sure, if you're going to say things like "you can't change who you are" etc then, please get lost :-)
(I didn't know where to ask this, so I asked here)
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Just keep in mind that just because you are curious doesn't mean you actually ARE bisexual. Almost everyone goes through a phase in their lives where they question their sexuality. I know I did. I chose to remain straight because I realized that while I can find women beautiful and appreciate femininity, if it came down to it I could never be bisexual because I don't find women sexually appealing. Just think about what you want for your life. The decision is yours.
i'm right this moment. i assume i need to be seen bi-curious because of the fact i come across females sexually captivating, yet there is not any way in hell that i might date a woman (we are stressful) and that i do no longer sleep with people who i'm no longer in a dating with. So, for this reason, that's a moot element.
You can't force homosexual oriented thoughts out of you, your sexuality is a part of you. As probably a bi-sexual you can pretty easily have a normal relationship with guys all your life so don't worry. That has been done so many times before its not even funny. Although you may need to supplement the relationship by you both watching porn together occasionally. You also need to know that if you ever have a threesome, they can easily destroy a loving relationship if you're not careful.
I shall get lost, but damn, you wanted an honest answer or what? Get lost yourself.: )
Sexuality isn't a check box where you check "Homosexual" or "Heterosexual" or "Bisexual" it's a spectrum. Trying to find out exactly where on the spectrum you are is a pretty pointless exercise. If you're attracted to men, and you pursue relationships with men, for all intents and purposes, you're heterosexual. If you occasionally find women sexually attractive as well, you're still a heterosexual.
Stop being disgusted with yourself. Your cultural biases have made a mountain out of a molehill. You want to watch lesbian porn, then knock yourself out. It's not as though you'll suddenly stop being attracted to men, it doesn't work that way.
There are people who are straight, there are people who are Gay and there are people who are bi. That is just the way it is. But you can do what you like, you can say no to what you don't like. And as far as feeling disgusted, is that a personal thing or a society imposed thing? That is the question you have to ask yourself.
Can you see yourself with another female?
Perhaps you are bi, but so what?
There's nothing wrong with that at all.
like you said you are just curious. only you know if your bi.
Same here loool x)