I am not social. I would much rather stay home. I say inappropriate stuff and people tell me I'm very awkward.
I have a crush on my teacher and I do weird stuff to get his attention. Like I started a fight with my friend and was being really stupid bc I thought he would think its cool. I say I like to read so I can go in and see him. I borrow his books. I don't even read them. I say I do.
I lie all the time. About stupid stuff. Just to please people
Everyone says I'm so pretty but to me that means nothing because in so weird. Not weird like unusual. I mean like truly weird.
I laugh at rape jokes and women abuse jokes. I do agree with this stuff I just find humor in it.
I have no friends. I don't like people my age. I'm 16. I only like adults. I never know what to say to other people
I am very smart. I have almost a 95 and above in every class.
I also have dermatillomania. I pick at my skin. All over my body. Scars all over
Opinions?
I can take negative comments
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First off, "psycho" is shorthand for "psychotic," which is an actual, diagnosable condition and not what you're talking about here.
There's a whole cart load of different stuff going on here (which is normal for human beings). So let's put them in baskets that seem to go together and see what we get:
The first question in psychology is "Is what you're doing working for you? Are you generally happy?" If the answer is, "No," then you've got some work to do.
Not very social, doesn't pick up well on social cues, very smart but says/does inappropriate things... these are common to Aspberger's Syndrome. Which is not a death sentence. People with Aspberger's can and do have careers and relationships (I have a very good friend who has it). It just means that you process the world differently from some people and need to be aware of how you work, so to speak, and how most people work, so you can get along better in the world. For example, if you're aware that you have a tendency to say things that put other people off? There are ways to deal with that.
If you're generally a good person, considerate and kind, then you find friends who are okay with the fact that you say weird stuff, or, as my friend sometimes says, "Was that inappropriate?" She genuinely doesn't know. Sometimes yes, sometimes no -- but we take her as she is.
Laughing at rape jokes -- there is the construction of the joke vs. the content. Yes, you can construct a joke that will make some people laugh about almost anything, but... consideration for the feelings of others is a valid thing, and could I make a joke about the things you've told me about yourself that would make people laugh at you? Absolutely, yes. Should I? Well, that would be cruel. Why would I hurt you without cause? I aim to be a decent human being, so I won't. Should you laugh at rape humor? Well, I'd say "no" because it hangs on cruelty, abuse and harm to another person, and laughing at such things mucks up your inner life something fierce and makes it really hard to like yourself.
The skin picking? Needs to be addressed by a doctor. It's an actual condition, as you know, and that you keep doing it is an issue -- for your health, among other things. You can end up with a bad skin infection that way that does you real damage. So time to talk to a doctor.
There are only people who have issues and are dealing with them and people who have issues but are trying to ignore them. Everyone has "stuff." If your stuff is such that it's interfering with your life, then you work on it.
The crush on your teacher? That's normal. Most teachers deal with it at some point. It's part of growing up. People in positions of authority get it all the time (teachers, doctors, therapists, etc.). If you view it for what it is, a normal part of growing up, you can even enjoy it. Try to figure out what it is about the teacher that appeals to you. This helps you figure out what you are looking for in a romantic partner when the time comes. My husband reminds me in some ways of the adult guy I got a crush on when I was little -- of course, nothing was going to come of it, but it did help me figure out what I like in a man, so I recognized it later on. Don't take it seriously. Enjoy the fluttery feelings. They can be fun. Not worth fighting with your friend, though.
Well your being weird for attention. And you seems to be enjoying it. But be careful of the psychiatrist and shrink types. They will use you to make millions - giving you diagnosis - brain altering meds and constantly find a new scientic sounding name for your new diagnosis . It is a free country if you wana be the strange guy we will let you .