I think I'm a lesbian.?
I always thought of myself as straight. And a couple of years ago I had an encounter with one of my best friends. Haha, typical. And then I thought of myself as bi. I know I like women - there's no way I'm full-out straight. But I had a boyfriend for the first time about 3 weeks ago, and we broke up because I didn't want him touching me. I mean, he kept wanting to make out and hold me and stuff, but I always made up excuses. He was a nice guy, too. It's just... idk. And even before when I thought I was bi, I knew I was leaning to the one side. =/ I'm REALLY confused, so if anyone could help? Lol.
Update:I find it funny how you deleted a part of your answer, now.
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Only you can decide whether or not you want to identify as a particular sexual orientation. If you are no longer interested in guys sexually, then perhaps you are a lesbian. Some people who identify as bisexual feel more attracted to one sex than to another. Others believe sexuality is fluid (i.e. you can be bisexual during one part of your life, straight in another, gay in another). Still other people believe that most of the population is bisexual and that people fall somewhere along a continuum. It's really your decision though what you believe about these different theories of sexuality and only you know who you are attracted to. Give it some time and I'm sure you will figure it out...unless by that point you have realized that labels aren't really as important as people make them out to be.
Well, I'm bi also :D and from personal experience at a certain time you are always going to like both, but somewhat lean toward one sex more then the other. Today you might be more attracted to women but a month from today you might be more attracted to a man. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 yrs so I'm kind of on chicks right now (lol) but you're not confused your just bisexual!!! ;)
well it is all up to u. maybe some stupid idiots think that being gay is a sickness that their brains create but I think heck if you love someone go out or if u like someone do what u want I mean love is love no matter what gender or ethnicity. So only you can answer this question. not some people from the internet that don't know anything about true love. [cough] John... but i mean its ur choice.
When you can't stand to be with guys but only women then you're a lesbian.
well maybe you need to get a gf hey everyone deserves to be happy
You're confused
Give this guy another chance