I think I'm a lesbian?
I'm fourteen, and I came out as bi last year in November. In January, I came out as a lesbian, but then dated a bunch of guys from February to November. I really didn't get much excitement out of the guys, and focused more on girls. I realized I haven't ever been psychically attracted a guy, but I've definitely been sexually and physically attracted to girls. I want to come out, but I think I'm too young and too inexperienced to have people take me seriously. But I really want to come out...any advice?
Update:No, I don't even have that I'm bi on my Facebook/Myspace. I don't feel like airing it around to everyone and dealing with people's crap.
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Hey, don't worry if people don't take you seriously. A lot of people will think you are too young to decide what you're attracted to, and make a huge decision like that. I was 16 when I came out as a lesbian(I am 21 now) And I am still a proud lover of women! If you feel comfortable coming out then do so, don't worry about what people think because there are tons of others who will accept you for who you are. You're never too young to decide who you are but do not mix it up with confusion. Make sure before you do come out that you are physically and emotionally attracted to women!
Good luck hun :-)
just do whatever and be yourself because right now it sounds like youre a recording artist with an EP coming out in january and a best of out in november. your sexuality is upto you, if you feel like being with a boy or a girl then go ahead, but from the sound of it youre just looking for a way to update your myspace or facebook, which is why no ones going to take you seriously when you flip flop each month, "ok im lesbian now"... next month, "well, im bi now". youre not Lady Gaga so no one gives a hoot. just do whatever without having it be some big announcement.
Will your parents support you? Will your friends freak out or take it okay? Think about things like that. If everything is go ahead, just tell the truth is the easiest way. Obviously everyone will ask "what about the guys?" Don't get flustered, if it helps print out your part, that's perfect.
your only 14, chill out
i would wait till your at least sixteen by then you would have girlfriends and some experience..and then you would know what you are.. just experiment hun.