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I think girls this young should get abortions. :(

But a lot of people would shun me for that belief!

There's nothing wrong with having a baby at a young age... but are you ready?

You need to take a pregnancy test. If you ARE then you will have to tell someone.. and decide from there what you are going to do.

Go get a pregnancy test from Wal*Mart.

Hope you're okay. :)

hey baby girl

I will have agree that people on yahoo answers are not the nicest or the smartest. I am truly surprised you would come on here to seek help on something so serious. Out of curiousity... do you have any close friends? Anyway you are not a slut or a whore and what people think should be the least of your worries right now. Now you think you are pregnant...meaning you are not sure? So lets take the first step on confirming if you are actual pregnant. Go to a free clinic, I always advise planned parent hood cuz in my teens I always went there. Or even take an at home pregnancy test. Once you find out positive or negative then you have a better sense of what you are dealing with. So if its negative. You know to be careful in the future and to practice safe sex. But if its positive. You gotta sit and think about what YOU want to do. Now in days there are so many options. Some more favorable than others. My advice is before you go to your parents have a sense of what you want and how you want to handle it. Go to your parents like an adult.... I know you are only 14 but you have already done an "adult act" so to speak. Hopefully you have a close relationship with your parents. If you don't want to tell them alone. Maybe you might have a school counselor who can assist you. Maybe bring your parents in, along with you and you guys can discuss.... Just know that yes having a baby young is hard but lets not take away from the fact that having a baby is a gift and an amazing experience....

hope I helped

Hey hun,

For starters those people who are calling you those things dont matter so dont even care what they say. As for being pregnant before you start to worry yourself crazy go and take a pregnancy test or go to the doctor and have it confirmed. If it is confirmed then you need to seriuosly think about what you want to do. Don't for one second consider doing something you dont want to do just because someone else has told you to do it. Yes to be pregnant when your 14 is young to be having a baby but people make mistakes. I had my son when i was 19 and even then i thought it was too young i was using protection but they are not always 100% effective. Do you have the fathers support? do you have support from your family and friends?

In my opininon hun 14 is way too young to be having a baby but i think you should do what you feel in your heart is right. It is one of the hardest things you will ever experience. If you really really have your heart set on keeping the baby then you need to think if you will have that support during pregnancy and after the baby is born. Im a single mum so i know how hard it is to do it alone. You say you have been through alot in your life... you need to think about if you want to be bringing a child into an environment like that depending on what you may have been through.

You also need to consider what you want to do with your life because if you want to make something of yourself then you will definatley be putting that on hold because every waking moment is dedicated to that we one. Do you have a job? How do you think you will support this child and look after it at the same time?

Whatever you decide to do i hope you make the right decision for you but i cannot stress to you enough that if you decide to keep the baby please please make sure youve got excellent support from the people around you. Thats the one thing you will need the most.

Goodluck!!

Take a pregnancy test first. If it's positive then talk to the father of the baby. Keeping in mind that even though it's important to know how he feels about it, know that you will ultimately be raising the baby all by yourself. Grown, married men run off at that kind of responsibility. Don't expect a teenage boy to step up, even if he does say he's happy and excited to be a father. Try to get an idea of what you want to do, whether it be abortion, adoption, or keep the baby, BEFORE talking to your parents. Otherwise they can easily push you into making a decision that you'll regret for the rest of your life. Parents want what's best for you right now, but they sometimes forget that this is too big even for them to handle. I hope for your sake that this is just a scare and will knock some sense into you. Pregnancy is mild in comparison to all the things that come along with sex. Things that a 14 year old(no matter how mature) is ready to handle. Most often, the psychological damage that comes with the strong attachment women get to their sex partners that is not reciprocated. And biological consequences. Girls that start having sex early are more likely to have reproductive cancers that may render you unable to have children before you reach an age when you may start to want them. That has happened to my sister and she didn't even lose her virginity until she was 15. All of my husband's previous girlfriends are also unable to have children because of precancerous cells in their reproductive organs. They, too started having sex early and with multiple partners. It's just not worth it. If you really want sex, masturbate. Take it from someone who's been having sex for a few years, it's better than sex anyway.

P.S. The dollar store has good pregnancy tests if you're worried about money. They are just as accurate as expensive name brands. Test after you are one week late for your period. If it's negative at that time, then you are definitely not pregnant.

well im 15 and a mommy 2 a 5 week old boy so if i can do it i know you can :)

first before you start stressin, you need to take a pregnancy test.

you should get an accurate result 2-3 weeks after unprotected $ex, no sooner than that. i know waiting is the worst thing.

if you are pregnant then you need to get prenatal care as soon as possible and tell your parents.

if you need help with anything email me.

i been thru a lot of mess in my ;life to but you just gotta keep ur head up cuz life is rough.

Well, being pregnant at 14 is different, but that doesn't necessarily make you a whore. It just makes you human. I would get counseling and certainly financial help if you are pregnant. DO NOT watch " The secret life an American teenager" They do not count as a reliable source. lol. Also, consider adoption and other options for your baby and I wish you the best of luck!!

Some ppl are dumb on here, just ignore them, they're too immature to be on a computer if they can't act civil! :)

Anyhow, get a test to be sure! But if you turn out to be... don't stress yourself out! I got pregnant when I was 15, I know it's scary and can be a little hard, but I did it - as a single mom, u can do it too! :) My best friend got preg. when she was 13 :-/ But she's a really good mom & I'm not encouraging this young age.. but if she can do it, I'm sure you can!

If you turn out to be pregnant though after a test, just make sure you tell one of your parents and go to a doctor!

Please don't be like those young mom's on the new's - that throw their baby in the trash after they have it to keep it a secret! There is even a Safe Haven for babies, - if nobody wants it, after you have it, you can take it there & they will take it from you (No questions asked & you won't be in any trouble) But definitely talk to someone if you turn out to be pregnant... Best of Luck! ! ♥

OK not to be mean but please learn how to speak/type properly,

thus continue your education i can not stress how important this is.. not only for your sake but for your unborn child, its very important you don't just fall victim to the statistics of a 14year old mother, be the best damn mom you can be girl.. Go to school get your high school dip. Go to college, anything is possible if you want it bad enough! there are so many options if you are unable to afford childcare while in school, alot of day cares offer assistance, CCC here in florida parents pay 34 a MONTH for daycare (i used to work at one when i was 17).

also, keep the child don't abort it, if you can not care for the baby give it up for adoption, at least let the child live..don't kill it.. its not its fault for being conceived, and im sure there are plenty of families that would love that baby with all their hearts.

your not a slut, you made mistakes.. it is your choice what you do about it.. i understand about your horrible life.. i had no parents both of my parents were addicted to crack/cocaine, i grew up on the streets. however i finished high school with a 4.2 honors and im in college. finishing up my final year for financial adviser, anything is possible sweet heart you just have to have the will and drive to do achieve it..

best of luck to you, you unborn child, and your future

baby doll you will need it, however you are a STRONG WOMEN.. and will be able to over come anything you set your mind too, email if you ever want to talk.. or hit me up on myspace

www.myspace.com/courtney812 or aim

at

shorty1317ch.

please don't abort the child,

please give it a living fighting chance at life..

please be the best mother possible..

go to ALL your doctor appointments.. take your prenatal vitamins.. care for you self.. if you smoke quit.. if you drink stop.. its time to mature your a mother now..

Sweetie. You are definitely no slut. And who ever told you that is an a**hole. Everyone makes mistakes. I think you should just get a test and see if you are prego and if you are its ok. Just calm down and tell your parents and they should help you though it. And Im only 15 and I know how you feel. I was just like you a month ago.

Ignore those people and don't take it personally. You are really young to be pregnant, but yes- people make mistakes and you have to learn somehow. Seriously ignore those people or report them because it is against yahoo's guidelines to use fowl insulting language and to not answer a question. Good luck!