I think Im in trouble?
My parents found a joint that was hidden in my room. They have no right to snoop through my stuff!! They said I cant drive my car all summer long except to work, and that was 3 days ago. I have been hiding out at friends houses and not answering my phone, when my parent leave vmail they are so mean, not even concerned about my safety. I want to go home but Im scared of what they might do, take my car, my phone ..my life, away from me. I just dont think I can handle all that bullsh*t. They always team up against me, even my younger sibs. What am I supposed to do?? I cant talk to them like normal people because they are not normal they are my parents.
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I'm going to assume you're a minor...
They have every right to snoop through your stuff. You're their child, and clearly you cannot be trusted not to break the law.
All they did was take away your driving privileges? Consider yourself lucky because that was a very lenient punishment. If you were my kid, that would have only been the beginning. And all that this little running away stunt would do is ensure that your punishment went from 'bad' to 'horrible'.
Go home and face the consequences of your actions instead of trying to run away and hide like a 2-year-old.
Eventually you will be found (your parents probably already called the police and filed a report). And anyone who assisted you/harbored you can be facing criminal charges. Unless you're incredibly selfish you won't put your friend in that position.
You need to stop and be reasonable. Your smoking dope and your parents are mad and worried. That is normal. Your parents do have a right to go through your room. They pay the bills dont they? You need to go home and just tell them you made a bad decision unless you want them to call the law. Come on, I have been in worse trouble than that and I survived. Who cares if they take the car for the summer. Some parents would've gotten rid of the car. Just get a friend to haul you around. They may need you sometime. Call them first on your phone and tell them your coming home that you were just scared of what they would do and after thinking it through you know they are trying to help you. Just do it and get it over with.
Why did you have a joint in your room? And YES they have a right to snoop through your room because it isnt YOUR room its THEIR room. You think pot isnt a big deal but to them it is. You are so worried about loosing your car and your phone, oh boohoooo. What about the parent that might loose a child because you hit them with your car because your too high to drive? What about your parents that think about your well being and wonder if they may some day have to bury you because you were too high to drive and kill yourself in a car accident. Do you ever think about that? NO! All you are thinking about is your precious car and phone. How selfish you sound. You need to grow up and face the consequences little girl!
well, first of all they are your parents, so they actually DO have a right to snoop. I mean they are only trying to protect you . AND it is not good to smoke anyways. If it was something totally unfair, that would be different. But a joint ? So here's the deal.. go home because the people in your family are the only people who will truly care for you and lookout for you in life. Trust me your parents only want you to live life., and not waste it on that stupid s h it
they're only worried about you right now.. imagine if you found a joint in your daughters room and she disappeared.. wouldn't all kinds of crazy thoughts flow thru your head? they might think you're off smoking MORE pot. go home since you have to eventually.. let them vent their anger towards you, tell them what they want to hear and deal with it. because running from your problems isn't going to do sh*t! it WILL take time, but they will get over it. good luck!
omg life with no car and no phone! How horrible!...
Okay calm down and go home your parents are just worried about you. Imagine if you were in their shoes.
Well go home. How would you feel if your child smoked dope than ran away? You shouldnt have ran away or smoked dope! Your punnishment is ur fault. Be maturte
you are ebing EXTREMELY foolish and unreasonable... i would even agree with them if they grounded you for a month and made you WALK to work!! what your doing is dangerous, unfair, and downright irresponsible... of course your parents are acting this way!
Its time to grow up NOW
and take responsibility for your mistakes
your punishment was soooo soft you wanna be glad my parents arent yours !! just go home and face the music .
i see youre not sorry about what you did or you dont seem to be .youre parents have every right to search youre room they have every right to take away youre priveleges for what you have done wrong ..