I think im a lesbian?
I'm 13 years old ive dated a girl over the internet we video chatted called and text meet in person but we broke up now im dating this girl who is 15 and at first it didn't feel right but now im 2 weeks into the realtionship and it feels perfect! I imagine myself having kids with a girl and marrying one and falling in love but im not sure im only 13 i havent told my parents how do i do that?
Update:oh the internet girl lol she was like a year ago but she was in the same state just one town over but this girl im dating now livs right next to me my sister is a lesbian/bisexual. So i have no idea my mom keeps asking me are you a lesbian? Do you think she knows?
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I think that you should tell your parents since you're only 13 and you're dating. I'm just thinking about your safety, really, you need to be careful with people you meet online. You think that you're being safe, but you're only 13 and there are people out there much smarter than you. (I'm not calling you stupid, but they know what they're doing )
But, I would say you are definitly a lesbian!
If you think your parents will accept you and won't harass you for being gay, tell them, otherwise don't. Just be careful, okay?
EDIT: She may know. Mom's have a way of knowing stuff about you, I mean, she's known you all your life! But, my many of my straight friends who just don't have boyfriends (and one who does!) get asked this question a lot, too, so I don't know how much it means. I think that mom's just like asking their daughter's if they're lesbians. :P
I'm 13 too. When I was younger I liked women. Now as I got older I started to like guys but I still have that little feeling for females. I completely understand what your saying. I never told my mom. I used to kiss them in the bathroom and everything. Don't be afraid if you're a lesbian. I may be bi-sexual
you're into girls now but maybe later in life you'll start to like boys too.. My fiance was a full on lesbian till she was 18, then she met me and (probably for society reasons) she decided to start a relationship with a guy 'me'. As time passed I noticed her behaviour around girls and asked her many times until she opened up n let me know her past. It so happens that I love her even more now 1 that she was open with me & 2. I'd love to see her with other girls playing sexy and being who she really wants to be.. I get turned on when she flashes her boobies to them or kisses them on the lips or touches her friends in sexy places.& I definitely wouldn't mind if she has sex with any one else.. Heck, i'd love it and would love to be there with her. The only thing I want is that she tells me everything. I Love her so much. So what i'm saying is you should just be whatever you want to be. But with your parents you are the best judge if you can trust them or not. But for now you can keep it secret.. All the best with your beautiful life :) ..
Bahaha I think this is cute . Sure you are a lesbian or maybe Bisexual ( you like both male and females if you didn't know what that meant ) . If you are fine with your decisions on dating a female then its all fine and your parents SHOULD accept your decisions. Just tell them and be serious , don't make a joke out of it or you wont be taken seriously and it will make it harder to accept your decisions . hope you have a good time with your girlfriend.
Edit: Also you should be careful with the people you meet online.
youre young and still figuring out who you are as a person. if youre really comfortable with you parents, tell them. if not, maybe wait it out a little until your 100% sure!